~do you ever feel insecure~why/when???~?!
Question: occassionally...not all the time,only when i allow myself to feel insecure,b/c i'm in control of my feelings.
Answers: occassionally...not all the time,only when i allow myself to feel insecure,b/c i'm in control of my feelings.
when i see other women that my man finds attractive and i think they look better than i do.
Walking around malls seeing young girls with amzing bodies.
I feel old.
Of course, I think everyone does at some point. Whether it be in a relationship, a friendship, a social situation or at work.
I invented the word insecure! a few years ago i felt insecure no matter what i did. I even saw a few psychologists for a while but didnt think it helped. Then i got a new job after leaving school and a great boyfriend who loves me for who i am and although i am still insecure every no and again, i have improved a great deal.
i feel insecure alot.. when a guy I'm with checks out another girl or when i do something embarrassing..or if i walk into a room late and everyone stares at me.. i always feel like i have something on my face or on my clothes i hate the most when i have to walk in front of a huge group of people i feel like there are a billion eyes on me...i just want to curl into a ball..
Yes i sometimes do,but only when something bad is happening or if i am with someone who makes me feel horrible about myself or if my family does or says something that makes me feel i am not good enough or pretty enough....
I always feel insecure. Especially around other people or even when I'm watching tv. I hate myself because I'm so ugly and disgusting. I have huge confidence problems and major insecurities about myself. I feel really insecure when I'm with my boyfriend, because deep down I know he want's someone else, someone better.
Ive been pretty insecure my whole life. So much in fact that I think affects me daily.
I don't really believe in myself.
I don't think Im good enough for other people.
And these thoughts only limit me more. When I think those things, I tend to freak out in situations, thinking I cant handle them. I distance myself from people if I think they won't like me. Sometimes i feel a little paranoid...threatened more like it. Like people are just going to realize they don't want to be around me. Its crazy.
Sometimes it causes me a lot of anxiety!
Im wondering if there is anything I can do about it!
Good question...
*EDIT*
Ive found though...if you just realize how ridiculous it is...and put those thoughts behind you, you'll find you can handle anything!!
Its just a matter of getting into that mind-set!
At times, it's just a part of life I would say.
I'm probably one of those most insecure people. I hate going out and seeing those tall blondes with the amazing bodies out with really cute guys. I have self esteem issues so it just makes it worse.
when im with my boyfriend and i see girls with bleach blonde hair, nice bodies, with nice tans, big butt. sucks but im working on it! makes me sick but hell. i just thin about it and say to myself "their hair is so not real, and neither is their tan" it works sometimes haha.