I like myself better when I'm drunk?!
Question: I like myself so much better when I am drunk... I'm not shy and I am outgoing and fun. At times I drink when I know I am going to go some place where I am going to need to talk and not be shy... I drink sometimes before hanging out with this gorl I'm dating? Does this happen to you? Is it bad?
Answers: I like myself so much better when I am drunk... I'm not shy and I am outgoing and fun. At times I drink when I know I am going to go some place where I am going to need to talk and not be shy... I drink sometimes before hanging out with this gorl I'm dating? Does this happen to you? Is it bad?
hey i did not catch if you are a woman or man listen when you were born you were not a person who drinks, ok lets do this when did you start drinking and why, how did you realise that you need to drink before you talk or hang out just be yourself and i pray that god helps you to quit!
1. drinking wastes money
2. it will leave you poor
3. sick once you are addicted
4. as you go on drinking liquer will leave mentally disable
5. lose your job if your are working
6. fail classes if you are at school so quit while you still have a chance
i noticed this about myself 2 last year. im also a shy person but the main thing u should realize when meeting people is that often times it doesnt matter what u say...as long as u say something. when u look at it people dont really remember a whole lot about what others say...but if ur the quiet 1 in the corner theyll remember that. i had a tough time with this 2. in order 2 get better u need 2 put urself in those uncomfortable positions and show urself that its not as bad as u think...then u wont b as shy
I quit drinking 7 years ago. I was never an alcoholic, but I quit while I felt I still could quit. If I had waited another 10 years maybe there is no way I would ever be able to quit. Stuffs addicting. But when I drank it was to get buzzed or drunk only. Not because I liked the taste. I used to frequently get plastered.
I would never describe being drunk as a good thing. So yes, I think it is bad. And particularly bad that you need to rely on alchohol to relax and have fun.
i'm a totally shy person most of the time, and i usually don't speak unless i'm working with someone or something. but i also have incredibly fun, close friends that i can be really crazy with at other times, because i'm not careless about who gets to know me.
have you tried to be the fun and outgoing person you are WITHOUT drinking? maybe you have just mentally attached fun and alcohol even though you're totally capable of being fun without it. i mean, you are you... regardless of whatever catalyst the alcohol is for the situation.
my suggestion is to not drink the next time you go on a date, and see where it gets you if you just relax and settle into it, because i'm sure you can be outgoing without the alcohol.