How can I end my porn addiction?!
Question: I have a porn addiction that has ruined my life and made me bisexual. I want to end it and end it now.
It started off when I was quite young, bout 14/15. Lookin at straight porn on the internet and gradually noticed that I was turned on by rubber and sports. This all evolved, I think due to the fact that there was only gay pictures dedicated to my fetish. Anyways, now I spend a full night hunting down pictures of men and women thus destroying my life even more...
HOW CAN I END THIS MADNESS AND JUST GO BACK TO WOMEN?!?!?!
Answers: I have a porn addiction that has ruined my life and made me bisexual. I want to end it and end it now.
It started off when I was quite young, bout 14/15. Lookin at straight porn on the internet and gradually noticed that I was turned on by rubber and sports. This all evolved, I think due to the fact that there was only gay pictures dedicated to my fetish. Anyways, now I spend a full night hunting down pictures of men and women thus destroying my life even more...
HOW CAN I END THIS MADNESS AND JUST GO BACK TO WOMEN?!?!?!
I dont know how to help you, as i'm not a professional, but what i can tell you is about my story.
At the age of 13, i was curious, and discovered porno. And from 13-15 i was VERY addicted, especially 13 years old. Not only have i polluted my mind, but i almost met a few guys out for sex, but backout in the end. To others maybe it isnt much of a big deal, but losing your virginity as a girl in my religion/country/culture is considered not very good... Also, i watched lesbian porn and got addicted to it. As a result of all this porn, i liked a female teacher and another female, around the same age.
You are NOT bisexual. if it makes you feel so guilty, and you personally know it is wrong, then quit it. :-) Bisexuality is something to do with the mind, in my opinion. What made you bisexual?? By watching too much porn; By fantasizing to have sex with people of the same sex. You can choose not to be bisexual. This is THE method to go back to women.
Now i'm 16. Well.. you can say that i'm 15 cos my birthday this year isnt here yet. But anyway, i havent fully quitted my porno addiction. In fact, sth to confess, i watched porno today.. And after that i felt very guilty about it. But after that i made a decision: Not to sin anymore. TO STAND UP ON MY FEET, AND QUIT it. As we feed in negative things into my mind, things would only get from bad to worse...
So i guess what you can do is to make someone accountable for you. It's good to know your problem, that the porno addiction makes your life destroyed, even more. You could install a porno filter.. This would decrease the number of porno websites you can go into, as it is not 100% foolproof. You could make someone accountable for you(That's what i did. I told my mum, seriously. But it took alot of courage to do that.). You could even paste post-its on your computer monitor, like saying, "Porno destroys your life. I love myself, and i would live life to the fullest." etc. Take time...
Also, i know many people will agree with me to say that masturbation is right/wrong, but i found out that it is best not to masturbate so frequently... The more you masturbate, the more your body would crave for sexual pleasure. And at the end of the day, you will find yourself not being able to control yourself. Hence, try cutting down masturbation. Also, keep yourself occupied. I'm saying this to myself too :-) All the best. May God keep you safe.
find a partner
watch lesbian porn? or just STOP watching it all together!
you can get professional help
You may benefit from professional help. Good luck.
GET RID OF YOUR COMPUTER AND GET A LIFE!!!
get rid of the computer
talk to someone ... professional. you obviously have an unhealthy addition
you might need medication
good luck
I likem pubic hair on chicks...most porn actors say now to pubies
well , i dont think its jus that simple.
STOP WATCHING IT PERIOD !!!!!!!!
look for a nice girl , and be yourself ..
if it doesnt work out.. it doesnt work out...
sorryy... hope all gets better
Start with this website
http://www.no-porn.com/
Then, see a counselor. Nothing can make you bisexual. You need to deal with this problem and figure out what is causing you to do these things.
Good luck!
get a woman and a man to see which is better but only ur body knows what ot wants
just because you like men in porno doesnt mean you are attracted to them in real life. that can happen.
so ask yourself would go out with a guy?
like for real?
You will have to get professional help.
First off, accept it is not your fault. You have an addiction, which is an illness. The next thing you need to do is seek out a professional counselor. Porn and I assume masturbation cause intense physical feeling which even a strong willed person will have a hard time defeating. Most importantly, don't give up.
well, moving away and get a new start on everything in your life could be a way out. just rememebr: move and promis yourself that you will stay away from the computer.
go to a proffesional, and don't watch porn anymore, think in other things, try to work out, and if necessary, leave alone the computer....
Yeah I'm going with ragner
find someone and this addiction should be over or go to counseling or something
maybe you should find a church and give them alot of money
Pray and seek medical professional help if you have to.
You can do anything you truly WANT to do........by putting your mind to it, and DO IT! If you're unable to, then you truly dont want to quit, bad enough.
First, try and taking a break from the Internet and if that don't work try going to a therapist.
Why don't you end porn all together? It was the start of this whole mess in the first place. There are actually websites you can go to to get help with your addiction. Don't you feel dirty afterwards?
Get professional help. There are psychiatric and counseling services that will help low-income individuals and families. This is your mental health that you are dealing with. I think it's wonderful that you realize you are addicted and you want to change things. I wish you all the best.
Claim that you are totally insane and get committed to an asylum. After that the help is free.
If that's what you enjoy looking at you shouldn't stop it. If you feel you are bisexual be happy and strong knowing that's what you are, and they true mate would except you however you are. If you want to destroy your addiction give away your computer/collection.
give up control of your computer, first off. to anyone you trust. then ... i dunno how to get back into women ... find a female partner i guess, and have sex. i dunno how to help you there.
try gaming...
get a girlfriend and delete ALL your porno, if that doesn't work seek proffesional help. try to find a costructive hobby that keeps your mind off of porn and keeps you busy.
Find a nympho at the local porn aholics annonymous and marry her! Get help or you'll ne the next sicko on the news!
Find a hobby outside the house, go to parties with friends, go to the gym or you can try going to a psychologist that is willing to help your situation.