Suicide.....?!
Question: Honestly, today I was more depressed than I have ever been... I spent a good majority of the day thinking about how I would kill myself....came up with the sleeping pill strategy . Now I feel a little better. I cannot believe it, but all of this was over some guy I barely knew, who really hurt me emotionally.....
I just dont know how tomorow is going to turn out for me??? Life is really stressful for me . Can someone offer any advice for my situation?
Answers: Honestly, today I was more depressed than I have ever been... I spent a good majority of the day thinking about how I would kill myself....came up with the sleeping pill strategy . Now I feel a little better. I cannot believe it, but all of this was over some guy I barely knew, who really hurt me emotionally.....
I just dont know how tomorow is going to turn out for me??? Life is really stressful for me . Can someone offer any advice for my situation?
Do you believe in Murphy's law? This is a great convincer. Think of it this way: any attempt you make can't go smoothly, nobody is that lucky. People who try to overdose on sleeping pills tend to suddenly wake up vomiting and actually die (fully alert) from suffocating on the vomit. A similarly unpleasant death is experienced by way of hanging or drowning. People who shoot themselves in the head don't die instantaneously, they acquire a permanent brain injury and spend the rest of their life unable to make another attempt for lack of motor ability. Same goes for building jumpers and people who leap in-front of cars. What I'm saying is that any way someone can die is infinitely more horrible than the pain you feel now. Also, there will always be time to change your life, but only if you are alive to do it.
don't do it.. ?
get professional help.
dont kill yourself for a man who cheated you.........
most men were always so....they were deceivers ever...I shall try to console you with a song...its about every woman's life...written by great William Shakespeare
Sigh no more, ladies, sigh no more,
Men were deceivers ever,
One foot in sea, and one on shore,
To one thing constant never.
Then sigh not so, but let them go,
And be you blithe and bonny,
Converting all your sounds of woe
Into hey nonny nonny.
Sing no more ditties, sing no mo,
Or dumps so dull and heavy;
The fraud of men was ever so,
Since summer first was leavy.
Then sigh not so, but let them go,
And be you blithe and bonny,
Converting all your sounds of woe
Into Hey, nonny, nonny.
tomorrow, life would be different....say a good bye to the one who cheated you....just let him go...please dont commit suicide....life is precious....so much of your life is left....everything shall be right with you soon......
well you have hope -sine cyou are telling people your plan. Those that are ready to kill themselves will not tell people their plan. I would say talk to someone - social worker, counselor, therapist, go to the hospital
Please, I don't want you to harm yourself at all. God made you for a reason and it just wouldn't be the same with out you. Your family and friends NEED you a lot. Think about how they would feel if they lost you and you weren't around no more. Of course, you know they would be sad. Things WILL improve in your life. You have to let go and let God. I'm sorry that this man has hurt you, but you have to maintain strength. If this man has hurt you in a physical, emotional way you need to tell your family and contact the police. No one in this world should sit back and allow someone to abuse or hurt them in any fashion. I want you to live and have an extraordinary life, seek out new places and have fun. Spend time with family and friends at dinner, go shopping. Do something that makes you feel great. Have you gone to any plays, concerts, museums, something that makes you happy. What ever you do don't give up. I want you to read this poem Footprints. It has open up my heart to realize that I'm not alone, that God is with me. This is very beneficial
(Footprints)
http://www.llerrah.com/footprints.htm
Good luck and God bless
smile at least your not me...
you matter to me.
Here is a good tip.... DON'T DO IT!
Life has ups and downs. Get a good night sleep and tomorrow will be better.
Seventh Day Adventism
hey tell someone close to you about this so they can help you and good luck.
I have suicidal thoughts too,especially on bad depression days,the only thing i can suggest is to try keep busy as possible and occupy your mind.
You really have to talk to somebody about these things. FIND SOMEBODY. There's no way that the guy you barely knew was the only reason for this.
You only live once!
yeah don't let a guy ruin your life. if he treats you like crap then get rid of him. you don't deserve that. stay strong.
World is big, huge!!!
Alot of bad ppl there!!
u got to change yo
just relax and think about something else, get with some friends tomorrow and have a good time
who cares theres more important things going on in this world
i feel that way sometimes myself but its amazing how a good nights sleep can make your thoughts seem stupid the next day, if your thoughts are frequent or regular you might try counseling or if you just need someone to vent to contact me
if you kill yourself over a guy you love, how do you think this will make him feel for the rest of his life - having to live with the fact that his actions caused another to take their life. sounds mean and cruel when you think about it. tomorrow will be better - just try to stop thinking about doing something you will regret. everything seems like the absolute end when you are young - when you get older, things fall into perspective a little better - thankfully.
talk to Doctor Phil. He might able to help.
i thought about it for many months. sleeping pills won't work, because it's not strong enough.
I've came up with either suffocation, or hypothermia. I might go with hypothermia.. just drown myself in icy water and go to sleep
if youre religious, now would be a good time to delve more deeply into what God plans for you and what life is all about. If not, think about happy things, get counseling, be more optomistic. Not knowing what happens tomorrow is the exciting part of life. In the words of Forrest Gump, "life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what youre goign to get...". Just also know that youre not the only one feeling that way, other people feel that way too. I would tlak to someone, anyone about youre feelings. Once you express them you will feel a lot better.
Breaking up can be very hard. I know how it is...me and my boyfriend just broke up. its not easy but i will take some time to get over. But no guy is worth your life. Try to stay busy so you don't have time to think about what happen. But suicide is not the answer hun
Dont kill urself, there are plenty of other guys out there! As for advice, go find another guy, and forget about the last jerk who hurt you, once you find another you will forget allllllll about this current one? Good luck and thanks for NOT killing urself!
I've already answered this for someone else on here, so you get the watered down version. Basically, thre are a million instances where it could be much worse. Are you facing a deadly disease? Are you homeless? Have you lost the ability to walk? I could go on. There are people out there with much worse situations thatn you and I, and they manage to find the good in their lives. Sometimes that amounts to very little, but they still focus on it.
yeah erm see a councellor. i have b4 it really helps :) yeah im like that too. i get attached to people so quickly and even the slightest things can realy hurt you. yeah i notice even the tiniest little things that my gf does can really hurt me. its weird its getting better tho stick with it. find a really good friend thatll stick by you.
i was like this a lot of last semester, I was residing at the residential Illinois Math and Science Academy and basically everything just hit me hard, the work load, the stress, some boy troubles. I went to their school psychologist and basically as soon as your mind begins coming up with plans on how to commit suicide, it becomes serious. I'd really suggest you talk about these thoughts to someone you trust, and try to think positive when you can. Tomorrow may or may not be better, seeing as depression and suicidal thoughts vary day by day, but if this persists for more than two weeks you should really seek a higher help, it helps a lot.
I hope this helped.
Hope! Have hope! I'll go out on a limb and share my story (blog). It may encourage you. I've been there before...
http://blog.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseac...
www.myspace.com/jubagami
Talk, talk, TALK. To anyone you trust. Find a way to get it out to at least one person. You need to be heard, held, and helped. I have been where you are...ended up in a coma. Get a counselor at very least...someone you click with..if you don't feel that when you talk with them, get a new one, until you find one you like or else it's not that helpful. There are crisis lines when you feel like that too that you can call, google it. They are annonymous. Best wishes (((((((hugs))))))))
oh goodness y would you want to do that? ne way you must not let others bring you down so much, smile listen to a happy song, call a real friend and talk to them, killing yourself is the most selfish thing you could do! im sure life will get better, im bipolar and get hella depressed too and thought about doin mysef in but then i talk to my friends or listen to good music, just concentrate on something else something positive or paint a picture or write a letter to that person that hurt you, you dont have to give it to them but it will help!
Cheer up and Be HAPPY! everything will be allright!
look if you want to kill yourself heroin is the way to go, but honestly if you ever think you need to kill yourself wait like 1 entire week before you do it, if you still feel like you want to kill yourself then go buy like a half a gram of good black tar heroin and get a peice of tin foil and a lighter and a straw and smoke some heroin... you should get 2 rocks, breaking them into teeny tiny peices works best... you will feel the high in about ten minutes and in about an hour you should be dead...
i'm so sorry for what happened but killing yourself is not the solution. if you do, think about all the people you are going to hurt, like your friends and family. right now you probably haven't thought of that huh? it's hard with boys. i've been through a ton of it and i'm only 15. it's life though and it'll all turn out better sooner or later. my friend steven dang (and his mom and little brother) were all killed and that hurt really bad. so death/suicide affects everyone.
you can always try a suicide hotline or blog it all out. it helps :]