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Question: I think most of us would want someone that we have faith and trust in to hold us or listen to us while we're in pain.
Personally i dont like to place my problems on anyone else so i generally hold it in and deal with it myself, although there is one person who i will speak to if it really annoys me.
I think the main thing is that people just want someone to listen to them so they can get it all out... i played that person for many people and i tell you it is hard work as sometimes you just want to be totally honest and tell them what you think, but on the other hand you dont want to hurt them anymore.
Answers: I think most of us would want someone that we have faith and trust in to hold us or listen to us while we're in pain.
Personally i dont like to place my problems on anyone else so i generally hold it in and deal with it myself, although there is one person who i will speak to if it really annoys me.
I think the main thing is that people just want someone to listen to them so they can get it all out... i played that person for many people and i tell you it is hard work as sometimes you just want to be totally honest and tell them what you think, but on the other hand you dont want to hurt them anymore.
Human desire for socialization and support.
Me, I just get drunk. Works great. If Im sad, Beer will make me glad! End of story.
The voices in my head help me through the difficult times!!
I just need a cuddle,
dont listen to the person who said beer.
Alcohol will not work =] well, it might make you happy for the time your drinking it. but it wont once you stop. =]
Maybe you should get a shrink, or talk to a close friend.
also, what i also find helps is talking to someone who lives nowhere near me, out of the country and is willing to listen =]
Blogging is good aswell =]
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I used to think I wanted someone to hold me when I didn't have anyone around, but I don't feel that way anymore. I would rather have someone who will just listen.
Yeah, but the one who I want to hold me, is mostly the one who gets me like that.
yup, when i'm hurt or just want to talk, it is extremely comforting to hold my wife, hug her and talk. i feel refreshed, recharged, relaxed and reassured. and talking to her , while holding her miraculously solves most of my issues/problems.