Everyone is leaving?!
Question: My best friend is leaving town 2 become a model. She already got the job and everything. My other friend is going off 2 school. My other friend is getting married and having a baby. I need people. I don't want 2 be alone it's scary. These people have been my friends for 10years we are like sisters. All of them are leaving the sate and I'm staying. WTF? I don't want 2 me alone. Help me, I just feel like everything is happening so fast.
Answers: My best friend is leaving town 2 become a model. She already got the job and everything. My other friend is going off 2 school. My other friend is getting married and having a baby. I need people. I don't want 2 be alone it's scary. These people have been my friends for 10years we are like sisters. All of them are leaving the sate and I'm staying. WTF? I don't want 2 me alone. Help me, I just feel like everything is happening so fast.
Aww I'm sorry I know it must be hard. I know when Christmas brake came I missed all my girls because they all left town. I was so happy when they came back. lol they missed me and I missed them 2. I really don't think they are going 2 let a 10year friendship end. Leaving the ones you love is a part of growing up my dear. I know it's scary and it seems like everything is going so fast maybe u all can have a party b4 everyone leaves. Your going 2 have so many people in and out of ur life it's scary. I know because I have loved and lost a lot of people in my life. I know it hurts but it really makes u stronger. The only person you should need is yourself because you never know u might not have anyone later on. I'm not trying 2 scare you. You should really start working on being there 4 urself. Best of luck
They will still be your friends if everyone makes an effort to keep in touch. The best thing you can do for you is to get involved in something else and in meeting new people so you'll have things to do instead of just sitting around feeling lonely.
These are your friends, be happy for them. Don't you have a life, dreams and goals too? Get busy! This is life, friends come and go. I left behind 30 year relationships 10 years ago and moved 400 miles from where I grew up, it nearly killed me. But, it was necessary. Things change drastically from high school, no longer does everyone stay in the neighborhood.
It hurts and it really is a bummer, but you make new friends.
It's OK to grieve them going away, but at the same time eventually everyone has to go live their lives. Try to find new friends through work or classes or gym classes. Or just try to find things you can do that you enjoy and then you can be distracted.
If you are all that close you will stay that close and you will never be alone. But try putting your feelings on the table, have one big girls night where you guys talk about your fears, and emotions about how you all are feeling and im sure you wont be the only one who is a little unsure about whats going on. If they are your true friends everything will work out in the end and you wont be alone.
To get your mind off of it, invest in a hobby with a little you time, start hiking, or writing, painting, somethign that you can do on your own to pass the time.
Hope this helped :-)