Growing up too fast...?!
Question: I grew up way too fast. How do I learn to just let go and have fun? Or are we all just doomed to be boring uptight adults for the rest of our lives? When I turned 21 I didn't even have fun I got drunk made an *** out of myself and went to bed. Life's f*cking boring.
Answers: I grew up way too fast. How do I learn to just let go and have fun? Or are we all just doomed to be boring uptight adults for the rest of our lives? When I turned 21 I didn't even have fun I got drunk made an *** out of myself and went to bed. Life's f*cking boring.
some of us just had to grow up fast to take care of ourselves - it doesn't mean we can't have fun - just find some people to hang out with - getting drunk is not the answer your looking for - it usually just depresses you - look for other things you enjoy doing - do you enjoy sports, cars, movies, dancing, etc.
You are getting out of it what you put into it. Lighten up get out walk look at people, nature etc. Smile abit it will invite people to make conversation. Think about stuff other than your boredom.
life is what you make it.. hard to believe, but it's true. Make CHANGE, get dirty, let go of all boundaries, just go for it! go for anything! do what you can! Nobody can change the way you feel, everything comes from YOU.. EVERYTHING! so once you get off your feet and do something about it, you'll be on your way to being crazy. Don't down yourself for being serious and being an adult. Accept it, and live with it, but there's no problem in making change and doing something crazy once in a while.
mitch
it is important to hold to youth and fun, find a church with a good youth department, where they know how to worship have fun and get loose for God.
Do something silly every week and get photos of it to cheer you up.
I know someone whose amateur football team make them do something like dressing up as clowns or bringing a home-made mascot every week & they pay a forfeit if they don't. What about getting audience tickets for something on the telly or radio, having a round of crazy golf, have your mates round for a face-painting party, go to a karaoke night & join in for once, have a game of Twister (with or without clothes but definitely with a camera), read Viz, go to a water park. If you have any nieces and nephews a few hours with them can teach you a lot about fun, especially if you can do something really messy. Have fun just thinking about the possibilities and try and get a bunch of like-minded mates who can keep you going!
I did too .This is Gonna sound so Cleshay.But you Have to Face your Past to Move On with your future even if it Hurts.There are all types of therapist.Yes see'n a therapist Might suck.But you seem to be stuck in a rut.I mean even if you go to do things that seem Fun to do If your mind and heart isn't in it how can you do it Right? Sound familiar?If you have No get up and go No will !The reason for the drinking is self medicating.Start at your Local Mental health clinic Just for one appointment for a therapist and see what they suggest. Take tiny steps.Feel free to email me any time.Cess