Help me, I feel like dying ..?!
Question: I feel like I`m dying on the inside. I am so depressed and lonely and there`s no one I can really talk to. When I was younger my dad used to abuse me and I think this is the moment when my past is starting to affect me. Today I didn`t even go to school because I feel so alone and i don`t think someone truly cares. Can you help me please? I`m lost
Thank you
Answers: I feel like I`m dying on the inside. I am so depressed and lonely and there`s no one I can really talk to. When I was younger my dad used to abuse me and I think this is the moment when my past is starting to affect me. Today I didn`t even go to school because I feel so alone and i don`t think someone truly cares. Can you help me please? I`m lost
Thank you
A lot of your feelings are caused from depression. Its hard to explain to anyone cause when your depressed its hard to feel loved or cared for. And you will isolate yourself cause you do feel like your dying inside. You must ask yourself, has something or someone done anything to make me feel this way. Sometimes when you have to many things going on, at school, work, family, and/or friends. You can feel overwhelmed, and just want to give up (not going to school) Having someone to talk to is very important. I think you should get outside help, a therapist will help you. Try and find one who is best suited for your personal needs. At first it may feel awkward, but eventually you will have a feeling of trust. A therapist will help you get to the root of your feelings, by helping you sort them out. Please hang in there, you will feel better, but you will need help. Contact your family Dr. and ask if he/she can help. They usually can give you a list of a therapist or Dr. Who can help. If they can't they will know one who can. Make that call today.
I really feel like you need to get professional help. There are alot of great Dr's ou there that could help you to deal with the abuse and help you deal with your feelings of depression. When you are depressed you feel that all is worse than it ever could. Feeling lost id understandable. You should go to school because even though you are depressed it is important to continue to learn and be around people. Secluding yourself will not help. There should be a counselor at your school that you could talk to and they could leat you in the direction of proper help. Good luck! There are people who care! :)
Im sorry, I feel the same way, so theres not much I can say to help you, it would be like the blind leading the blind. But I f you ever wanna chat you can email me.
you can talk to me if you need to bec@abssn.org
xoxo
Hello, My name is John. I am just giving some friendly advice. I know this is a hard time in your life right now, but you need to find a close friend or relative and completely open up to them about everything. If there is no one you can think of, then look in the phone book. There are Dr.'s, and other places that deal with this sort of problem. This was not your fault, so don't blame yourself! Get some help, talk to someone, open-up about the problem. The longer you wait, the worse you are going to feel.
You can also look on the internet for places in your area that deal with situations like yours. I hope you feel better, and if I can be of anymore help just ask.
i would definatly talk to your doctor, there was a point in time i wanted to die too....if you would like to chat please feel free to contact me and i will give you some helpful hints...if u do feel suicidal please go to the hospital...or call 911 but please email me...
Cath_e88@yahoo.com
If there is really nobody that you can feel you can confide in at the moment (not even your mum, another relative, your best friend, your form teacher, your doctor?) you can call Childline free of charge from a landline phone (if you can't call from home you can go to a phone booth):
0800 1111
They are a confidential service for children and young people in the UK. They have specialist counsellors who will help you.
If you don't live in the UK, please post your country of residence as an additional comment to your query and I'll see if I can track down a helpline number for you.
The most important thing is not to suffer in silence.
Good luck xxx
I was abuse young too, and I know how you feel when you say your so alone. I'm truly sorry about your past, and I want you to know that your not alone. you can e-mail me anytime, I check my mail daily
emosoul110@gmail.com
sorry bout my e-mail name, I'm still trying to change it! remember, I'm here if you feel like talking, your not alone.
That's how I felt most of my teenage years.I dropped out of high school because I couldn't deal with being around so many people but feeling so alone.I attempted suicide.After that I decided to see a therapist.Talking really helped.Group sessions are great too because you'll get support from others in your situation.Sometimes it's necessary to take medication.I'm on Prozac now and I'm mostly fine.If you can get over the depression with medication that would be better.
I know sometimes it's hard to talk about things but a therapist won't judge you and are only there to help.
Try calling a suicide hotline if it gets really bad.They'll help talk you through it.
http://www.save.org/
I hope you can get the help you need
Everyone has felt down from time to time in their life. My suggestion is to go to school. Keep yourself occupied with something, like schoolwork. Maybe you feel alone now but imagine if you do well in school and go off to college and end up being a successful person. You will have many people around you and you will feel good about yourself.
i understand how you feel, i have been abused too and i know how it's like to feel so alone and to just want to die. but you cant let your past haunt you, you have to talk to someone about it or else you can never get it out of your head and it will affect your daily life. you have to be strong.
and dont say that nobody cares b/c there's at least one person who does you just cant see that. i know that i care about you even though i dont know you. it's hard to go through this on your own. nobody should.
if you ever needed to talk to someone email me (solitarychick0@yahoo.com).
Good Luck!