Is it wrong...?!


Question: to want to cut yourself to make someone else feel bad? I used to be a cutter, but its been awhile since I did. I don't want to do it now for the same reasons as before, but one of my friends is pissing me off, so I want to make her feel bad for blowing me off. is this wrong?

btw, I won't do it, I just want to know if its wrong to feel like this.


Answers: to want to cut yourself to make someone else feel bad? I used to be a cutter, but its been awhile since I did. I don't want to do it now for the same reasons as before, but one of my friends is pissing me off, so I want to make her feel bad for blowing me off. is this wrong?

btw, I won't do it, I just want to know if its wrong to feel like this.

I think that is kind of a bad idea. Just tell her that what she is doing is making you feel bad or you could just ignore her whenever she tries to talk to you again to make her feel bad and realize how it feels. If you cut again then you will probably become addicted again and everything will just be worse.

Feeling like that isn't wrong though. A lot of people feel like they have to do extreme things for someone to notice them or make them feel bad.

yes.wanting to make someone else feel bad by hurting yourself is always wrong. and most of the time it dosent even work. theres no point...you're only hurting yourself

I don't think it's "wrong" per say.

I am a recovering cutter also (eight weeks! XD) and sometimes I really get the urge also.

Instead of cutting to make her feel bad, tell her you feel bad because of whatever she's doing/saying and try to talk it out. Or go running or excersising, because that helps me. You get so pissed and then run it off and by the end you're so totally exhausted, you can't even think, let alone cut or be mad at anyone.

Some people will [possibly] make rude comments on here, just to prepare you.

Hope I helped. :)

Feelings are never wrong. Only actions are wrong.

Oh, I don't think it's wrong to feel that way, as long as you don't act on it.

I don't think you should be friends with her if she is blowing you off.

It's time to get rid of people who contribute nothing to your life, and make some new friends.

emotions aren't wrong they are just, sometimes, unhealthy. you said that you don't want to cut yourself anymore and that you won't but you want to hurt your friend. well then why do you think hurting her by cutting yourself is the right choice? wouldn't it be better for your friendship to talk to her and to tell her that what she did bothered you? think about it.

yes of course cutting yourself is a sign of depression do you want to look dpressed even though you feel fine

it not wrong by any means i get exactly the same feelings and generally do end up doing it to spite them, or if im not feeling as tolerent to pain ill jus not eat for a few days. Its weird i dont no how doing something that im not goin to tell the person im doing it to spite helps anything but it does seem to. sorry this dosent help much does it!





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