Why does everything in my life keeps going wrong?!
Question: I keep having stress in my life. I am alone and never have had a normal life
Answers: I keep having stress in my life. I am alone and never have had a normal life
try to stay calm, relax. I know this isn't easy at all you may have a chemical imbalance. how would i know?. i recently had a head injury - about 15 years ago I had head trauma where I had to be hospitalized. I was out the next day feeling like i was fine but not. everything was very slow - almost underwater like....my head was thinking faster than my mouth and sometimes the other way around. i saw things and heard things but i was strong enough to realize that this was a result of my injury. it took one doctor almost 10 years to get the right cocktail of drugs to make life live able. I feel like i am poisoning myself daily but i know it makes me better. trail and error Hun is all i can suggest. and if one doctor is giving you bad feelings then move on to another. don't waste time like i did. actually it was Workman's comp that screwed me around for 12 years. oh well. there are people worse off than us and we can prevail. i promise you that you will get past this if you try. that's what i did. there are so many variables i would need to know about you presently that could help me greatly - do you have kids? pets? your age? and many things all play an important factor in your situation. I personally studied Psychology to help me and understanding my ills. that helps alot!!! lemme know...i am rambling here and would love to help!
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hey hun, stress happens to everyone at some point in their lives. because they are going wrong and things are hard at the moment, everything seems so much worse. start looking possitive and going out to meet new people and things will start looking up.
Ah... maybe you are looking at it the wrong way. It is going wrong because you are wanting the opposite of what God wants for you. Stress? welcome to the real world. without any stress you would die. Stress keeps us going. And what is a normal life??? many marriages end in divorce. children get shuffled around. Have multiple of parents, so live with grandparents. So children have bisexual parents...... so tell me where does normal fit in? This country anyway in the US, there is no definiation of NORMAL.
A grandparent was probably cursed at some point.
sit down and breathe try and see why u r having do much stress. Is it bcuz u r procrastinating and mis managing yuor time. Is it irresponsible ppl? Whateevr it is try and stop it like if its not paying your bills when u have the money and you spend it on shoes instead , don't do that bcuz the bills will keep piling up.
Is it kids constanly fighting? gET family counseling.
is it due to loniliness? try and reach out to others, talk to a counselor or psychiatrist..they have seen it all, u don't have to take meds if u don't need them. U can just go to vent and work out a game plan on wat can help u , and wat it is thats causing the stress. Also go to church and pray and think of positive out comes not negative things and put downs. Work on building self confidence and self esteem.
Girl stress is know my best friend. Here's a couple of quotes I've started to live by "Don't let your happenings destroy your happiness" and "You have to crawl before you walk and only god knows how long you crawl" I would start looking for inspirations quotes and just thinking hard about them. It will get better. I figure as much stress than I've been through I can only go on to better things. You have to think as if you have already hit rock bottom and your next level is the top. I hope I've helped you but I wish you the best in your life.
Normal? What's normal? No, really, in all of my life I have never found what is meant by normal.
Each of us has some time on this earth. We are to become the best we can be, whether that means education, job, family, or just interacting with others in a helpful or inspiring way.
Alone? What do you mean by alone? In this age of the internet, are we really ever alone anymore. You can meet so many new friends and communicate anytime you like. There are scads of support groups out there just on Yahoo Groups alone.
I use to think the way you do, a very long time ago. I finally decided that it was not everyone else's fault that I was alone and stuck in such a negative rut. It was my responsibility to get myself out of that rut and become the person I felt I truly was on the inside but had failed so far to show anyone on the outside.
I made some changes to the way I thought and approached life. Here are the steps I took to finding self-fullfillment and enlightenment.
1. Be Grateful.
2. Forgive yourself.
3. Be kind.
4. Practice the Golden Rule.
5. Give of yourself to others.
6. Be a good friend.
7. Learn to really listen.
8. Make positive goals and time frames to meet them.
9. Approach life with the wonder of a child.
10. Have fun!
I did not make these changes overnight. It took about 5 years to turn things around. And I am not saying that my life is perfect, no, there are many things in my life that are very difficult.
But I approach each problem as a wonderful challenge and an opportunity to learn and grow from it as I solve it. That ultimately is what life is all about you know.
To get you started, here is a website talking about the first step, gratefulness...........
http://www.gratefulness.org/a/universal....
Mine's not too good at the moment either, no heat, no telly and no washing machine, what else can happen, all this happened within a week!
And where is your friends when you need them????