Definition: Despair or Determination?!
Question: Am i in despair or dis-repair if i yearn to see some one again and try and make things right?
Or is my determination turning me into a stalker and other deragatory manners of persistant intrusion?
Answers: Am i in despair or dis-repair if i yearn to see some one again and try and make things right?
Or is my determination turning me into a stalker and other deragatory manners of persistant intrusion?
The only thing you can "fix" or "change" is YOURSELF. You cannot fix or mend mistakes made in a relationship that is over, simply because it IS over. You can make it a positive experience by learning from it, and making changes in yourself so that it doesn't happen again. You can write a letter of apology if you know where the other person lives. Then let it go, it is over. Get on with your life and do your best to be a better human being. Continually persuing this other person is indeed akin to stalking and it indicates obsessive behavior. Learn from the episode and leave it behind you.
sometimes you have to "let it go". if you've done all you can do, then walk away. the person obviously doesn't want to deal with you, so you need to leave them alone. accept that you've tried and there's nothing else you can do.