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Question: why do i hate people like when i go to the mall or have large family gatherings i cant help but fell hate for the people around me is this a disorder or just some thing i having to do with my personality and what can i do to stop these feelings. THANKS


Answers: why do i hate people like when i go to the mall or have large family gatherings i cant help but fell hate for the people around me is this a disorder or just some thing i having to do with my personality and what can i do to stop these feelings. THANKS

Hate is a very strong emotion. It's like screaming a great big NO! to what you encounter. Oddly enough, its opposite is not "love" but "tolerance".

So, if you're having trouble tolerating people around you, it may actually be because you see in them something you cannot accept in yourself. (For instance, a friend of mine who dyes her hair can't stand to see other women letting their hair go grey.)

Self-acceptance is a stage of maturity rare in adults and almost non-existent in younger folks. It takes guts to accept yourself exactly as you are, and to make no excuses to anyone.

Instead of pointing the finger at other people, take a good deep look inside. Believe me, it's a lot better than you might think! When you can accept who you really are, I think you'll find that those feelings of hate and intolerance gradually disappear. Good luck, and I'm rooting for you!

Go see a doctor. It's best.

probably social anxiety disorder.. you dont like to be around big groups of people.

Want do u mean? Ur family or people who are near u and ur group?

You have to elaborate on your hate. Do you hate the noise, the people, their voices. Do you wish to cause harm to them.

You could have Anti-social personality disorder but with the limited information you gave it's impossible to tell.

If you think you have a problem talk to a close family member about it, or a doctor.

I always hated groups of people when i went oto the mall and i thought i had a social anxiety disorder w, a glorophobia but it was just a clique thing.

See a doctor.

well you need to stop refusing medical treatment. yeah, it seems like you have a mental issue...yahoo answers aren't gonna solve your problem. that's why people go to college for more than 4 years so they can help people with mental disorders. you need to go.

OMG, i had the exact same thing. I went to my doctor and he gave me zoloft. It took a couple of weeks, but im feeling much much better. If you dont want to go to the doctors, go to your local vitamin shoppe and get st. johns wort. Good luck.

knowing you have a problem is one thing...but if it means seeing a therapist, then that might just help. it isn't such a bad thing to do. if you want to get better, do better in life , you need to do whats best.

omg im like that to and sometimes i throw up if im around too many ppl

i feel the same way almost. i don't necessarily hate these people but i have a social anxiety problem and bc of it i haven't been able to force myself to get a job. so whenever i see family or i'm around people i feel embarrassed and i feel like they think there better than me and i rather not see these people bc they just make me feel bad. until i get my problem fixed i rather just focus on myself. IM on aim if you want to talk. my screename is TheBTPYoda





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