I need help plz?!
Question: well alot of stuff has been going on threw my life right now and i cant take it anymore and im thinking about doing drugs and i dont wanna but to me thats the only way i can see myself being helped cuz i feel like no one will help me... do u have any suggestions so i can keep myself from doing drugs
Answers: well alot of stuff has been going on threw my life right now and i cant take it anymore and im thinking about doing drugs and i dont wanna but to me thats the only way i can see myself being helped cuz i feel like no one will help me... do u have any suggestions so i can keep myself from doing drugs
First of all, I am so sorry that you are experiencing such difficulties in your life right now. It sucks. You need a hug and a strong word of encouragement. <HUGZ!> Hang in there. You can handle things. You will come out of this a stronger and better person. You can do it!
You may not realize it, but there are several things you said in your question that are right on. You said there are difficulties in your life "right now." So you recognize these troubles are temporary, not forever. That's important to remember. You also mentioned you do not want to take drugs. Good for you! You know in your heart that would only make things worse.
Unfortunately, it is perfectly normal for life to give us tough stuff to deal with. Please don't feel too alone. We all have devastating stuff to face at some point. And we all struggle. How you handle this will affect the kind of person you continue to grow to become. Take advantage of this opportunity to become stronger and better.
There are two ways to deal with this. Run and hide or stay and face it. Running away (taking drugs is a way of running away) is a pain avoidance response which will bring you a whole new set of troubles. Running away will not change things and it will not change you. It really isn't a very productive way to behave. When other troubles come your way, you will have learned nothing to help you cope.
If you face your problems in a productive way, there is no guarantee that things will change, but you will change. You will become stronger. You will learn how to cope. You will be able not only to help yourself, but you will be able to help others. You can overcome anything.
You don't have to face this alone. If you feel like you need help, talk to a counselor. They can help you sort things out and see clearly to your bright future. Best wishes to you, my friend. There are people out here in cyberspace cheering you on. You can do it!
and how will drugs actually help you make things better?
grow up and deal with it, sort your life out.
emo whiner...
Ive been there done that, the best thing to do, it it worked, is to start a new life else where, new friends and new job, if its family, just cut off from them for a while till your settled,
all you have to do is just up and leave start fresh, if your that worried, youll do it,
trust me it works, now I have a great life and drug free
The problems will still be there when the drugs wear off, dont you think you should tackle the problems
Drugs are not the answer, its a temporary fix, and if they dont agree with you will make you very sick.
You havnt mentioned the problems or what drugs you are condsidering. - Is there someone you can talk to?
i no wat ur goin through my brother was like that for a long time.. you need to keep your mind occupied.. do things to keep ur mind off drugs.. believe me you dont need the drugs..you should go see a councillor.. my brother found that very helpful.. talk to dem about your problems let dem help.. dont keep everythin bottled up...
Time to start helping yourself. No one is going to help you.
YOU need to take responsibility and start helping yourself.
The truth is you have to want to help yourself. Instead of resigning yourself to feeling overwhelmed, make a list of all the things that cause you stress, and consider each item, one at a time, and decide which things are completely out of your control, and which ones you can do something about. Then, for those out of your control, forget about them. You can't do anything to change them. For the rest of them, decide what you can do, and do it. On the other hand, if the only solution you can find to deal with life problems is to get wasted, you will never amount to anything, and before you die, you'll probably end up killing some innocent bystander who gets in the way of your getting wasted.
So, ask yourself ... what kind of person do you want to be?
hey my friend. you have a beautiful life waiting for you out there. do you really want to throw it away just like that by doing drugs? its not cool doing drugs! cause you will get high first and might be jail for it or worst get rape or jump over a high bldg and die.. have you ever though of that before?
you do have a lot of friends that really care about you.
hey you really do love yourself! if not you wont be here online. seeking help right?
thank you, for loving yourself and live.
hey everyone one do have up and down in their life..
include me... i did though of ending my life once during my teens! but i didnt.. and now m living and learning and having a happy life and new friends too. God gave me another chance of new life.. hey please do open up yourself and try talking to your friends about your problem that you are facing! or maybe your buddy or family members also can.
dont worry and dont feel stress about it anymore!
please please dont ever try doing drugs!!!!
please do really and sincerely try not to be tempted in doing it, drugs? good luck. i will pray for u. God bless n protect u alws.
I think i'm going through the same thing.
email me if you want to talk about it.
ill always be here for you.