Pleases don't judge me, please help me......................?!


Question: So I have been though alot latly ( you can read some of my other posts to understand) So I have been cutting. but now i have been not eatting. I weight 135 now i'm 126. I really do is drink water. I know I need help but i'm looking for a new theraipts. I just feel lost, not sure what to do. no one know;s about this, they don't understand they just tell me it is drama but if there went though what I did, maybe they would understand alittle more. Please be nice, please don't report this, i'm trying to ask for help right now anyway i can. Please help me if you can. thank you reading. Please take care.

i'm 22 years old. If I ask them for help they just tell i'm crazy and get over it. I can't trust them, they tell everybody everything that I say. I have a few friends, but I don't want to be a burdan on them.


Answers: So I have been though alot latly ( you can read some of my other posts to understand) So I have been cutting. but now i have been not eatting. I weight 135 now i'm 126. I really do is drink water. I know I need help but i'm looking for a new theraipts. I just feel lost, not sure what to do. no one know;s about this, they don't understand they just tell me it is drama but if there went though what I did, maybe they would understand alittle more. Please be nice, please don't report this, i'm trying to ask for help right now anyway i can. Please help me if you can. thank you reading. Please take care.

i'm 22 years old. If I ask them for help they just tell i'm crazy and get over it. I can't trust them, they tell everybody everything that I say. I have a few friends, but I don't want to be a burdan on them.

Life sucks. But know you aren't alone. Even though you don't know their faces, thousands of people are rooting for you to get through the same hardships they did. I can't tell you any more than you already know. Eating is important, and cutting shouldn't be a habit. It still is for me, and I'm trying hard to stop. Im rooting for you.

If your friends are your friends you won't be a burden.
Good luck.

well im only 14 and i know how you feel i feel basicly the same way you do but you're not a burden to them if you were they wouldnt be your friends to begin with.

I understand you but I don't know how to help you

I know how you feel.. I struggle with something like that to and I also like to keep it quiet so that I'm not a burden

The only exit I have found is the Lord
I'll pray for you and I hope this helps

It's hard anyway, but it's so much harder to do it alone =)

Honestly... you have a eating disorder probably... which isn't good, but common for your age. You cut because you have emotional pain inside that you want to get out (so my therapist explained to me) and yeah. You are not crazy, but obviously that would be anyones reaction who isn't a professional.

Find a new therapist and good luck

People don't want to think you have serious mental health problems...but you have to tell them strongly and make sure they get it. You need therapy and you need to eat. I understand that people blow you off, but you sound like you're getting in more and more trouble and you need help.

none of that will help. u have to be strong and remember life will get better. please eat cuz that can cause major health problems. i no this isnt in the religion section but if i feel lost i usually pray and it really helps. God will always listen and He does help. usually when someone feels lost or empty, missing something no matter what they do its because they dont have God and He is telling u that if u come to Him He will help. and if u dont believe in God find some one to talk to. sometimes its easier to talk to a stranger. keep ur head up and email me if u need to. im always willing to help. good luck.

I wish I could help you, but I really need to more about the situation from you. Like your history, and reading old posts just doesn't do it. We would need to actually communicate, which I can understand someone would be hesitant to do, especially with someone you don't know over the internet. If you wanna let me give it a shot, feel free to email, but other than that I don't know if I'll be much help to you. Peace.

talk to me i am here for u dogmicjoe@yahoo.com. call 1800 dont cut to stop cuttin

Hey Cassy

I understand from my own experiance a little of self harm. I also stopped eating and restricted my food so I could cope (in fact I have lost around 20lb, and am now underweight). You are doing well by looking for a new therapist. Have you seen a pyschiatrist at all? Do you have a diagnosis yet?

You keep mentioning 'they' alot. Who are 'they' Cassy?

This site has a lot of useful links:

http://www.christiananswers.net/q-eden/c...
http://christiananswers.net/q-eden/eatin...

Also, consider giving this number a call...

Self Harm Hotline

1-800-DONTCUT

Help for "cutters"





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