Ever wish that....?!
Question: ..... that your heart would stop beating one day so that you could stop making your parents life miserable?
Answers: ..... that your heart would stop beating one day so that you could stop making your parents life miserable?
You are a kid, its your job to make your parents life miserable, they would be lost if you didn't. Seriously I am glad you are not interested in suicide. But you exist and that is all the justification you need to be and do all you can. Parents come in all patterns. The right pattern is parents who love, care and support their children. Or who do their best to do so. And children are still children at 17 and 18, they still have an under construction sign on their head.
It is not your job to make them happy. It is theirs to look after you. It really bugs me that parents lay so much crap on some kids, that everything is wrong because of the kid, or would be better without the kid or the kid is **** or what ever. All of those are not the words you need to hear or should hear and they are not true. If there are issues in the Parents life then it is their responsibility to deal with them as best they can and never look for scape goats in their kids.
So you hang in there, know that you count no matter what else you might hear. And that you don't need to justify yourself for being here or who you are or what your parents issues are. Set yourself the goals you wish to achieve in life, even small ones that last only a week or bigger ones if you have the sense of where you want to go. Chase your dreams and be all that you can and enjoy every minute of it and leave your parents to their misery.
It can be hard if you still love your parents, but they need to see and hear you. Its the way its meant to be.
Be safe, be sage
Edit. OK so you are having trouble academically, well you are not the first and wont be the last. I completely blew high school, but still made it to university eventually.
Do you spend the time you need to to improve your grades? Do you have any learning disabilities or limitations, not everyone can get straight A's you know. The reward should always be for effort, not just results. If you want to improve your grades and you have the motivation then in the absence of other impediments or challengers (dyslexia or ADHD etc) it comes down to starting back at where things became less clear or understood and working you way through the material. Can you get any tutor support? Apart from any cultural issues about which I would have limited insight, I don't see that your being Indian has relevance. You are a person who wants to make a go of life. Well make your plans and do the best you can and if that is Cs and Ds, but it was your best then I will cheer for you, because effort will always count in my book.
No, I've always wanted to keep on making my parents life miserable. Tit for tat.
I used to. Then puberty ended. That was great.
No matter if my heart beats, or doesn't beat, I make everyone's life miserable.
But hey, I'm making my own life.
So who cares?
No...that would definitely make your parents life miserable becuz you would be dead...
Dont feel like you have to die to help your parents...try to talk to them about how you feel, if you cant then talk to a friend or close relative like an older brother/sister, aunt, uncle, grandparent, older cousin...reach out to someone who cares and stop thinking that way
No, because if my heart would stop beating, I'd loose the feeling of life, love, and music.
If you really feel this way, please call for help. 1-800-suicide.
what kind of question is that !!! why would you make your parents life miserable for GODsake they are your parents take care of them as they did when youwere a baby and when ever you need them.
You do not need that to happen to stop making their lives miserable. I am a parent, I love my kids, if I lost one I would go nuts. My sons are monsters, always in trouble in one way or another . But they are my life, I don't know any parents that do not feel the same way.
If you are worried that who you are and what you do makes them unhappy then you need to sit down and talk with them. If you want to change then change. If not talk to them about who you are and see if they can understand where you are coming from. See what they want from you and think about whether or not their request is reasonable in your eyes. It is your life, but you are young and parents sometimes have a reason for the things they do. They are not always right, but if you do not tell them things they cannot understand. Try it.
If that fails maybe counseling is worth looking into.
I've definitely been suicidal. But I never gave in. You shouldn't either. Hang in there.
i know how you feel i'm indian too and my parents yell at me for no reason sometimes
When people commit suicide they are not thinking rationally therefor you can not come up with a rational explanation to understand suicide victims.
Yet whilst you're still alive I say you're better than that and you do have worth and value as an individual so hold on to that.