Am i a...pedophile??? i dunno wut 2 do im friggin 15!?!


Question: Kay..so basicly ATM my head is totaly fxcked up. i dunno who i am, im all confused N stuff! :( i think i am a pedophile :( its really weird i know plz dont be me be mean =[ coz i really dunno why! i dont fancy kids at all! i like older guys like 17 or 18 or something OMG its just like since about a month ago i just been thinking that i am a pedo.. coz there was this really sweet girl who i see on the way to skool and i looked at her and i thought omg shes so cute!! but i dont fancy her! but i dunno why i just kept thinkin omg im a pedo! and its like totly makin me upset N stuff and once, like a week ago i cried at 5am coz i was so upset about it. IM 15!! thats not friggin normal is it!!i had 2 write this to get it off my chest omg im freakin out ATM erm i heard on here someone sed it could be OCD coz to be honest i do kinda obsess over things!! maybe it cud be that?do i need to see a mental help person? if i do..how do i do it? i cant tell mum omg she would hate me! ahh plz help


Answers: Kay..so basicly ATM my head is totaly fxcked up. i dunno who i am, im all confused N stuff! :( i think i am a pedophile :( its really weird i know plz dont be me be mean =[ coz i really dunno why! i dont fancy kids at all! i like older guys like 17 or 18 or something OMG its just like since about a month ago i just been thinking that i am a pedo.. coz there was this really sweet girl who i see on the way to skool and i looked at her and i thought omg shes so cute!! but i dont fancy her! but i dunno why i just kept thinkin omg im a pedo! and its like totly makin me upset N stuff and once, like a week ago i cried at 5am coz i was so upset about it. IM 15!! thats not friggin normal is it!!i had 2 write this to get it off my chest omg im freakin out ATM erm i heard on here someone sed it could be OCD coz to be honest i do kinda obsess over things!! maybe it cud be that?do i need to see a mental help person? if i do..how do i do it? i cant tell mum omg she would hate me! ahh plz help

You really need to speak with your mom about this. I wouldn't say you're a pedophile (more likely, you'd be the target of a pedophile, as they like to take advantage of children). I'd say you are a teenager whose hormones are out of control and you've had very little sex education. If you can't talk to your mom, maybe talk to an older sibling, teacher, or some other older female you trust who can help you to understand the confusing emotions you're feeling.

no that dosnt make you a pedophile if you liek older people. its not that much older either. there is nothing wrong with you. you are probaly just to mature for people your age

so wait your a girl and a pedophile?

Man, you are really an obsessive person (maybe as in OCD).
What is wrong with looking at a girl and thinking she's cute? So are puppies and kittens! That doesn't make you a pedo! I think you need to talk to somebody about your compulsions and constant worrying.
This doesn't mean anything! Especially if you like guys who are older than you anyway.

Anything that causes you to be this upset needs to be addressed. You need to tell your parents that you are having thoughts that you cannot get out of your head. Tell them it is very upsetting to you. If you describe it to them the way you have here I think they will see that you are having a repetitive/obsessive thought problem. I don't think that this makes you a bad person. But, it makes you a person who seriously needs to listen to what is happening in her head, and get help. Talk to them soon. This needs your attention.

I think a pedophile is someone who not only thinks a little child is cute. Children have the ability to make you fall in love with them with their cutness..but not in a sexual way. If you felt like you wanted to touch that little girls private parts etc that would be something to be concerned about. If you really felt the need to.
If you are OCD you might be trying to convince yourself that you are.
If you feel in any way impulsive to touch a child where you shouldnt and not just admiring then you should seek professional help.

your not a pedophile...

Don't obsess over it . You are not a pedophile simply because you thought a girl looked cute. That is just a thought. And as for the older guy thing, it is natural for girls your age to be atracted to slightly older guys, because females mature faster.


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its not that your a pedophile it that you let your head dwell on thing that are not true and your mom wont hate you even if you were here's some advice i tell all my Friend's when they say they hate someone. you say you hat me i say i hate you but the one we we hate the most is ourselves because we let our minds dwell on stuff for to long. that's why you should think positive about your self and not negative try it it will work it did for me.

OCD is a possibility. Unwanted, recurrent thoughts are a symptom of OCD. Your thought toward this girl seems very innocent. I'm more concerned by your reaction to that thought and the fact that it is making you feel so terrible. I think you should seek counseling and don't be afraid to be honest about what you're thinking! Just please, find someone to talk to, preferably a mental health professional. Try finding one through your school or a trusted family member who won't be too nosy (those sorts of things are hard to say to family members, but trust me, a psychotherapist will not be shocked).

You can appreciate the beauty of a child without being attracted, which is what I am kind of getting from what I read. You are not a pedophile if you are attracted to older people or people your own age. You do sound like you are obsessed with the thought,which is probably where you are becoming confused. Your mom won't hate you for obsessing over things , which is all you have to tel her if it becomes such a problem that you feel you can't function without the help of a professional (therapist). Try to relax Trust yourself a bit more and see if that helps.

You're not a paedophile unless you have the urge to see the girl naked or touch her etc.

I've seen little children before and thought how good looking they'll be when they grow up 'you have such stunning/gorgeous children' - it's a normal response. It doesn't mean that people are paedophiles.

As for the mental heath issues - it sounds like you're over anxious and self doubting. If you feel like your feelings are affecting your life (as it sounds like they do) it may be a wise idea to speak to a parent/doctor about it. It's a common problem and nothing to be ashamed of.

Don't worry, YOU'RE not a pedophile.
Pedophiles are people who are SEXUALLY attracted to little kids.
If you aren't sexually attracted to someone way younger than you, Lets say 6 years old.
Then no you aren't a pedophile, and for liking older guys,
1. You are a girl and at the age of puberty. You will be digging both older and younger guys.

Don't worry too much about it. I look at little babies and think they are cute...It doesn't mean i am a pedophile.
I'm 17 and my girlfriend is 16...Doesn't mean I am a pedophile.
So don't fret its all good. You're normal.

For the OCD, Tell your mother, Its good to have a good interactive relationship with your parents. I tell my mom most of my problems. Go to a doctor and have them take some tests..All in all you most likely might just be worrying for nothing.

I hope this helps.

Your not a pedophile...All you thought is that the little girl you saw had a cute face..But if you were sexually attracted to her..Then that would mean you are one.

But the definition for pedophile is: Someone who is sexually attracted to younger children.





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