What does it mean when you get angry when you get no answers to your questions o!
Question: and how do you cope with it ?
it makes me feel ignored......i sit here and clench my teeth.....as before i asked a very important question to me and i got nothing.
it makes me feel like smashing my head off the wall
Answers: and how do you cope with it ?
it makes me feel ignored......i sit here and clench my teeth.....as before i asked a very important question to me and i got nothing.
it makes me feel like smashing my head off the wall
I know it was a real question for you, and you really wanted an answer, but don't take it so personal - it may mean there was just no one on line who had the knowledge you were looking for. Don't turn it on yourself - try asking it again at a time of day when more people are reading...
good luck
Well it simply means what you asked is not of interest to very many people is all. No real meaning in it. Just because the subject is of little interest it does not get a response.
i know but I'm not saying
Hmm well, may be you need to try asking the question in another way. Sometimes the way others understand your question determines the response. Do try and ask the questions in an interesting way it helps as well.
Good luck in your asking.
Hi
I see that you have changed your picture from the dogs face.
Sometimes it depends on what time you ask questions as to whether or not you get an answer. I have asked the same question at different times in the day and gone from no answers to maybe 7-10 answers.
Also it helps to keep the questions fairly short without too much drama. People get bored if they have to read too much.
welll r u asking appropriate questions that r serious????
I get annoyed to but sometime steh title isn't good or there r not many ppl on in the section u posted.
Provide a link to your question and I will try to answer it (I tried to find it but your questions and answers are private).
when you get angry about no answers -- it means you are self focused, and possibly attempting to force others to respond.
When a person gets no answers it can mean:
--People do not understand your question.
--People do not know the answer to your question
--The question may have been posted at an hour when few people were on (3am??)
Anger?? I think most people would feel sadness.
Consider a re-write to word your question differently. It may catch more people's attention, or may be easier to understand your meaning.
Fantome - do you really need to keep asking the same questions over and over? What does it make you feel when you do get an answer? You seem to ignore the advice people give you so what is the purpose of your questions?
(by the way answers on the internet is not a substitute for real human interaction). We are just ordinary people living ordinary lives. We do not have the training to solve your psycho/social/medical problems. We know you are lonely we know you are paranoid, we know you are angry, we know you are self absorbed, we know you are avoidant in getting into therapy. Do you know these things? How long do you intend to sit there in your lonely 1 br apt, with your missing teeth, crooked little finger, BPD, 1 old computer, torn ligaments, angry outbursts, etc etc etc etc etc..........???????
There is only one conclusion to come to and that is that you don't intend to help yourself!!!!
WHEN THE PENNY DROPS THAT YOU ARE THE ONLY PERSON WHO CAN CHANGE YOU AND THE PROBLEMS ARE WITH YOU - THEN YOU CAN FIX YOUR LONELY LIFE AND BECOME A MEMBER OF SOCIETY. BUT TRUST ME ON THIS POINT EVERYTHING GETS HARDER AS YOU GET OLDER!!!
Young people get more opportunities in life than older people do so if I were you I would stop wasting time trying to get attention on the internet. See a professional and start therapy. Face your fears and get on with it.
I am amazed that people are not telling you this in the same blunt terms that I do. What will it take to get through to you???
Maybe people not answering your questions will make you face the fact that we can't help you??
You have to do for yourself just like the rest of us!!!