I absolutely hate my life....maybe i should just commit suicide or something?!?!
Question: My life sucks! I have a Bachelor's degree (stupidly, in History), and I can't find a decent job that'll help me support myself. I live with my VERY ANNOYING grandparents, who are too strict and don't let me do anything at all. All they ever do is criticize me. My parents told me that I can go back home until I go to grad school. Great- grad school's gonna bury me in another $20 grand of debt! Now I found out that I have diabetes. On top of that, I have no bf even though guys always hit on me! Great- maybe I'm too stupid to guys, too! my life is terrible- maybe i should just end my life. It's getting worse, not better, and I don't even have a future!
Answers: My life sucks! I have a Bachelor's degree (stupidly, in History), and I can't find a decent job that'll help me support myself. I live with my VERY ANNOYING grandparents, who are too strict and don't let me do anything at all. All they ever do is criticize me. My parents told me that I can go back home until I go to grad school. Great- grad school's gonna bury me in another $20 grand of debt! Now I found out that I have diabetes. On top of that, I have no bf even though guys always hit on me! Great- maybe I'm too stupid to guys, too! my life is terrible- maybe i should just end my life. It's getting worse, not better, and I don't even have a future!
A. Wait at least an hour before you decide to end your life
B. having no boyfriend is no reason to kill yourself!
Believe me, a guy is not worth it. I don't know you and I'm not going to pretend like it will make a difference to me if you do decide to kill yourself. But I think the reason why you posted this was for someone to convince you not to. And I want to be that person.
I used to be very suicidal and no one knew.
I have attempted a few times to kill myself. I had a friend who died at the age of 17. I thought how stupid I was. I was trying to end my life, while other people my age were dying when they wanted to live.
It's a selfish thing to do, to kill yourself. Think of all thsoe people who die, who have their whole lives ahead of them, but they die. Live for them. Don't kill yourself.
Next tiem you want to kill yourself I want you to go outside and just aly on the grass and watch the clouds go by. Bugs may climb on you, but so what. As long as they aren't hutrting you, let them climb. Just watch as the clouds go by. If you still are suicidal after that, call me. If you need my number let me know. I can deal with long distance phone call charges.
Hmm. Since you're thinking of killing yourself, why not put that off a week or so and get some therapy? If it sucks, you can always kill yourself later.
I'm on a good antidepressant now. I highly recommend them, especially over being dead.
http://www.metanoia.org/suicide
There is hope. Pray about it!
DO NOT END YOUR LIFE!.....at least you have grandparents and at least you have somwhere to stay. you have wayyy to much to live for
i think you should talk to a therapist
get a grip
and a better solution to your problems
or... you could get off the pity pot. You have intelligence, as evidenced by your degree, use it girl!! There are a great many people out there with degrees and they are working in other fields applying the skills they gained in college to other areas of employment. Or, go back to college and get a different degree, or or or, you have a brain, stop feeling sorry for yourself and use that brain, you can figure it out.
You can be a teacher with that kind of degree. Pretty decent depending where you live. Just need to take the certification test or something like that I think.
Praying isn't going to help. She wouldn't have this problem if she was a mindless slave to whatever religion her parents raised her as, she'd just be "duh duh" and go back to sleep.
This problem must be solved with thinking.
i once tried to kill myself i felt the exact same way as you do i just figured what am i living for? to get up and do the same **** day after day, so one day i decided to just change it by ending it all, and i am so grateful and happy i lived, i know you may not realize it now but you do have a future just look at yourself now, you are not in the same place you were 10 years ago, and in 10 years from now you will be in a completely different situation, some of the best things in life take time! there's always a positive that comes from a negative, maybe you just need someone to vent to get all of your feelings and emotions out, it doesn't even have to be a psychologist or anything like that just a friend or someone you can tell all your feelings to and if you feel like you can't tell anyone how you feel tell an animal they always listen. a million people would love to be in your shoes, a place to live, food to eat, an education.
No dont kill yourself you need to pray and believe that whatever you prayed for you have received and you shall have it.
Just to let you know you can get a job anywhere and say O I gotta a degree and you get paid more or will advance faster than the other person without a degree. Its gives a little room to bargain.
get help. now. All of the things you listed are pretty common life stressors, if taken a fewer at a time.
you simply have reached the limit of your processing ability, and you need some outside input. and, the issue of suicidal thoughts makes it much more so.
None of this stuff you list is odd or unusual ---- you simply need a hand. There's help available --- check with the counseling center at the university you've gone to. Please.
life is rough. but instead of ending it when things get hard, fight for your life. there are people that can help u. dont give up. you went to college! you can find a job eventually. just pray for strength. your life wont be terrible forever. just know that you can get help and get thru it.
Don't commit suicide your life is not bad. First, men aren't everythingbe independent. I would try and move out from your grandparents house if you are finacially stable to do so. Your family and friends would greatly miss you if you killed yourself don't become a statistic.
Don't commit suicide. Later on today, I will most likely be beaten, but I'm no where near committing suicide.
Imagine how your family would feel when you die!
Please, calm down, don't do it, you'll regret it.
Suicide is NOT the answer.
Go on the interent and talk to someone. Do activities, do something fun. Meet someone on a dating website.
Talk to your Grandparents about something you and them like.
Think positives. Watch some comedies or something.
Life is unfair, you have to be strong, not weak. If you kill yourself, that would mean your a loser.
don't commit suicide, really, it's never the answer. right now it just seems like you have a lot of things going on and are very frustrated with them. trust me, you DO have a future. I'm sorry about your diabeties but it is a problem that many people face as well, as long as you keep it under control you should be just fine. and as far as bf's go well guys will come and go. for now just take things as they come to you instead of trying to overcome everything at once. But don't commit suicide.
i know how ya feel and you are not alone. My only advice is to go see a therapist. Don't kill yourself cause think of how its going to destroy the people around you that love and care about you. God puts us through rought times to enjoy the great times ahead. Maybe go to church if you believe in the lord and ask him for help. See a therapist or doctor and get antidepressants. I am on them and they saved my life. A job and the right guy will come when you least expect it. Hang in there sweet heart.
ummmm. no. bad. killing yourself is only gonna make other ppls lives worst. i think you should move away like to another state and it is like starting a new life. it lets you start over and you can make a better life for you.
Be a brave girl and think of what you can achieve in life. Be a teacher for history i have seen lots of kids that dont know what to do but they always find out one way or the other, try being a teacher. Anyway don't let diabetes disturb your life fight; stop eating sugary things and think of the furture as if you never had diabetes. Try listening to your grand parents they wont ever think bad of you. Get socializing open yourself up and communicate with others, go to malls maybe youll meet some sone there but dont ever think of commiting suicide. Bye and hope you stay happy.
you should not kill urself. that's not cool. you only get 1 life. don't waste it. there is always hope. you should get some antidepresents. maybe see a therapist, or pray, or both. Things will get better soon!
Please don't hurt your self its not worth it. what type of things do you like to do? If you are finding it hard to get a job look in the yellow pages and look at the companies that you would like to work for. then go and see them offer your services for free. in exchange for learning their trade. this will give you work experience and an opportunity to get a job in something you like doing.
Your problems are actually quite common. It's OK to have these feelings. But know that all these things will pass.
You won't always live with your grandparents.
You won't always be single.
Diabetes isn't that big of a deal, really. My cat has it, LOL.
Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Realize that it would be like a nuclear bomb dropped in the lives of your family and friends.
Ask someone out. Go to a personals website looking for a partner.
Get out more often. There are a lot of people going to college who have to pay rent and utilities at the same time. While your situation isn't ideal, it's free.
Even more people never have the opportunity to go to college!!
Often times people don't realize all they have to be thankful for. I think you have a lot going for you.
Don't give up, you're a beautiful person with a tremendous amount of life to live.
Write a book now while you still have all the answers!
ME!
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Sounds like you are having a victim time and I know how that feels. I have victim days too.
But hey, you have Grandparents that love you. You have an education. You have opportunities that so many others in life don't have.
Take a break. When all is said and done this is your life. If you need to get a job and move out of your grandparents and have a years break from study - then just do it. It might piss your family off but from my experience families usually forgive. And so long as you used your time wisely then no one should judge you.
Your grandparents might appreciate the break as well. You say they are VERY ANNOYING!!! I wonder what they think of having a younger person living with them??? Can't be easy on them right???
So make out a list of your positives. Another list of what you would like to change. And then make it happen!!! Quit blaming grandparents and parents etc and take charge of your own life.
aww sweety relax.
you know its going to work out. hey you already have a bachlor degree and with that you could be a teacher at a private school and get paid pretty well.
the right guy will come. dont put so much stress on youself. your educated it will work out.
suicide is scape goat i have had those thoughts myself i thought the people i would affect dont do do it please
That sucks, maybe you should try to find someone who would really appreciate you and live w/ them instead of the gps, and he would hopefully help you forget about the things in your life that suck and yall could just enjoy eachother's company so it wouldn't matter if you had a low paying job. Or maybe you could move to a city that has a good job for you ( without the grad school of course!) Or you could just wait until life gets better, cuz it always does, nd then you'll be really glad you didn't commit suicide! Or you could party lots, go clubbing and meet ppl and just enjoy life!
Sometimes using a recruiter can help you to find a good job. You don't pay them, companies that use them to find employees pay them a percentage. So, there will be issues with that and your compensation at the first.
How many credits would you need to get a teaching certificate? If it is not too many, then maybe going back for a semester or two might be worth it. Teachers don't make the most money but, they do make enough to be able to move out of the house...start to pay off some of your debts and you might even get medical insurance so that you could visit a doctor and get help for your suicidal thoughts.
As for the Diabetes, dealing with chronic disease is not an easy thing (I know, I have Crohn's disease and go diabetic when I am put on certain medications) but, you have a strength...you DON'T have a boyfriend. Now I know...you probably think I am crazy...but, you have time to find a boyfriend...you don't have much time to get your diabetes under control. Remember you are smart enough to do college which, is a big deal...believe you me, you are smart enough for guys. You just have so much you are dealing with right now, that that tension and worry maybe coming through and turning them off.
Deal with your disease, get help for depression and suicidal thoughts and I think you will find the BF thing to take care of itself.
The Grand Parent thing...well, you parents will let you move home...I would ask if their offer stands even if you decide to take a job and not go to grad school. A change of pace might really help as well.
Call up a suicide hot line and go see a therapist. Better yet, go to a suicide crisis center. Be grateful you have a roof over your head and food on your table and you do not have to work for it. Stop complaining and whining and get over yourself and go get help for you mental health problems. You won't find it here.