PLEASE!?! iM GONNA FREAK!!!?!
Question: I have been reallly stressed for the past year. i am only 12, and at first i thought it was just a stage of puberty, but i know it doesn't last this long. i have been really uptight with my family because i have to share a room and i can't ever get my homework done because it's too loud, even if my door is shut.I have been treated really badly by my 8 siblings, and when i'm upset, I can't even go in my room for privacy, because I'm not allowed to lock my door unless I'm getting dressed or going to the bathroom, and my sister is always in there. I want a cat so i can have someone to lay and snuggle with, but my brothers are allergic. I really am not willing to get a hairless cat. our family also can't afford very expensive things, like an ipod, which means that I probably won't get a cat.
But the most terrible thing that has happened is that i have beem having these really upsetting dreams. they are about my brother murdering my family, my friend breaking into our house
Answers: I have been reallly stressed for the past year. i am only 12, and at first i thought it was just a stage of puberty, but i know it doesn't last this long. i have been really uptight with my family because i have to share a room and i can't ever get my homework done because it's too loud, even if my door is shut.I have been treated really badly by my 8 siblings, and when i'm upset, I can't even go in my room for privacy, because I'm not allowed to lock my door unless I'm getting dressed or going to the bathroom, and my sister is always in there. I want a cat so i can have someone to lay and snuggle with, but my brothers are allergic. I really am not willing to get a hairless cat. our family also can't afford very expensive things, like an ipod, which means that I probably won't get a cat.
But the most terrible thing that has happened is that i have beem having these really upsetting dreams. they are about my brother murdering my family, my friend breaking into our house
Listen carefully. You are definitely dealing with something Psychological and you need to talk to someone. Puberty doesn't influence you to the extreme you have mentioned. being 12 can be a tough age because you are transitioning into your teenage years and your values and emotions are vulnerable.
**Do not act out on any of your irrational thoughts. the best place to go is a school counselor. however I am wondering if you are home schooled based on your large family situation, etc. Regardless, you need to reach out for help. Your dreams are a symbol of your unconscious and they indicate that you do not feel secure at the very least.
Even if your parents don't agree with seeing a counselor, I suggest you try.
Feel better.