Am i terrible for seeing/judging fat people like this?!
Question: When ever I think of someone fat i think that they have bad eating habits which stem from lack of self respect or lack of self control. And this is due to stress or other emotional problems which they don't control. So basically i don't respect fat people and think their weak not because of how they look but because of how they live their life they put their bodies in a bad state and don't have self control over emotions or other things. I know this sounds terrible and very bad and when i say i dont respect its not like i go around insulting them i treat them equally. But i justs see them as weak am I wrong to have this thought? I don't tell this to people because it really does sounds terrible? But have you ever thought of this for your self? Am i a Bad person for thinking this?
Answers: When ever I think of someone fat i think that they have bad eating habits which stem from lack of self respect or lack of self control. And this is due to stress or other emotional problems which they don't control. So basically i don't respect fat people and think their weak not because of how they look but because of how they live their life they put their bodies in a bad state and don't have self control over emotions or other things. I know this sounds terrible and very bad and when i say i dont respect its not like i go around insulting them i treat them equally. But i justs see them as weak am I wrong to have this thought? I don't tell this to people because it really does sounds terrible? But have you ever thought of this for your self? Am i a Bad person for thinking this?
Yeah, try not to judge people based on their weight. There are often extenuating circumstances: maybe obesity runs in their family, or they have some sort of health disorder. Being lazy or having no self control is not always the case.
I know people can't really control their feelings, but I guess as long as you don't really act on your lack of respect for them, its not terribly bad. Just try to work on it.
no...i think everyone does it...just keep it to yourself please
You are human, but for the fatty apologists on here, I became overweight and it was because exactly the reasons you stated. I let it happen, I have now taken control though. MOST people are fat just because they choose to be, simple and plain
I think this about fat people and I am fat. You may treat them the same, but one of the reasons they feel horrible about themselves is because they know everyone thinks this about them. It's not just you. At least you are aware of it and feel badly about your perceptions.
It shouldn't be your problem. Live and let live!!! Fat people sometimes have other issues besides eating. If you think negative things about them, stay away or ignore them. Just be polite and go have a nice life.
not at all..you have the right to do anything you want
No, you're not bad to think that way. I think the same way, sort of. When people are obese, it's obvious that they can't help their weight; but if their fat and don't have an underlying condition, then yeah, I think of them as irresponsible, weak-minded, weak-willed, etc., for not taking concern over their eating habbits. But you shouldn't think of obese people like that, because typically their problem doesn't stem from uncontrolled eating, but rather a serious medical condition that has nothing to do with food.
No your not terrible. I think that there are a lot of people that probably the same way you do about it. But it does sound bad. You should just keep theses thoughts to yourself. A person could really get their feeling hurt if you were to say that to them.
same. i come from a nice midwestern family of eaters, though. it disgusts me.
I became overweight due to medications they put me and being Bi-Polar, Depressed after Desert Storm every time I start losing weight they put me on a different anti-depression drug and i start gaining it back, I hate it it makes me more depressed. But what I'm suppose to do go back where I stay in bed all day. thinking of ways to kill myself, No so I guess I settle for being fat and if you hate me for that so be it. BUT I WOULD OF GAVE MY LIFE FOR MY COUNTRY AND YOU IF NECESSARY so if you think I'm weak go ahead