Am i paranoid or do i got a stalker?!
Question: alright so a few days ago my friend said he seen someone watching my house so he yelled " what are you doing " and hte man took off running. well just RIGHT now i had my music loud and my dogs started barking real mad ( thery only bark if someone comes up to my house ) so then i looked out the window to see a man running down the street. I know what i seen.. Am i paranoid? im 13.. im home alone. WHAT DO I DO! IM SO SCARED.. i am a very paranoid person but like... i dont want to call the police incase its nothing serious, and i dont want to call my mom at work.. cause like.. i always do when this happens and she doesnt know what to say cause she is so busy.. so PLEASE help me? what do you think this is?
Answers: alright so a few days ago my friend said he seen someone watching my house so he yelled " what are you doing " and hte man took off running. well just RIGHT now i had my music loud and my dogs started barking real mad ( thery only bark if someone comes up to my house ) so then i looked out the window to see a man running down the street. I know what i seen.. Am i paranoid? im 13.. im home alone. WHAT DO I DO! IM SO SCARED.. i am a very paranoid person but like... i dont want to call the police incase its nothing serious, and i dont want to call my mom at work.. cause like.. i always do when this happens and she doesnt know what to say cause she is so busy.. so PLEASE help me? what do you think this is?
I don't think you're paranoid. It sounds like someone could be hanging around your house for not a good reason. You should feel free to call the police if you are concerned. Let them decide whether it's serious.
It also sounds like you are too young to be left home alone. Talk to your mom about it when she gets home. Let her know how scary it is to be alone, and maybe she can make a different arrangement for you: like staying with a friend till she gets home, or having a friend stay with you. Or stay with a neighbor.
Call your neighbour and just ask them to go outside. they will be understanding, and you dont have to feel akward about it! they will help you unless they are high or disabled!
Call the police and report it. What are you waiting for?
If you are genuinely in fear of something call the police.
IT IS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY.
Is there someone you can talk to about being paranoid? Someone you can trust?
In this day and age it is wise to be on the lookout for things that don't feel right.
Best thing to do is go with your instincts, I know you are young but you need to learn to trust your feelings.
Are you safe where you are now? Are the doors and windows locked?
Please call for help if you need to.
I would call the police. It is better to be safe than sorry.
call the police...
Better to be safe then sorry. Call the police, trust me it'll put your mind at ease and this way if anyone is watching your house they'll be more aware. Maybe you can ask them to drive thru ur street more often. Not to worry you more, but maybe they know you're home alone. Have your mom or even the police ask if your neigbors can keep an eye open also when you're home alone, maybe call or come by to check on you.
Be safe!! And please do not answer the door unless you see whose there!
Call the police and let them know of these experiences. You are not bothering them, that's what they are here for. They will be more than happy to help you by patrolling your neighborhood. Does your friend know what this guy looks like, can he/she give some description? you probably couldn't see him well enough to give an adequate description, try to remember what you can, what he was wearing, shoes, height, color of hair, tell the police everything you remember.
Don't worry about sounding paranoid, I don't think you are. Stalkers/abusers love to make us fear and think we are nuts so we don't do anything about it. You're fine.
aww come on this person knows your English is absolutely awful I'm sure he only wants to give lessons in English As you very obviously need them.
I think you should call the police...you don't wanna wait until this creep does something....