Help i was molested?!


Question: i'm 20 years old i got so drunk last night that i couldn't move
my stepfather molested me he had his hands down my pants
i dont know how to tell my mother about what happend last night so what should i do


Answers: i'm 20 years old i got so drunk last night that i couldn't move
my stepfather molested me he had his hands down my pants
i dont know how to tell my mother about what happend last night so what should i do

I know this is hard to do, but you must report it, don't let your mom find out through someone else ( if he did it to you he is doing it to others who are in a state of as you were, drunk, or take advantage of someone who is simply looking for attention)...

this is a terrible thing that has happened to you and it will not go away and you are innocent so protect yourself from people like that by showing him you will not be used that way,,,its not your fault at all...no matter what he says, and believe me he will try to make it look like you were the one coming on to him, even if that were the case he still did wrong took advantage of you when you were inibriated, shame on him, please do the right thing, ask your mom if she can set aside time where you will not be interrupted go somewhere for a walk together if you have to, if she doesn't believe you its not your fault, at least you told her and now its in her hands, whether she forgives him or not I mean, and you let him know that you are charging him (or report it in the event you are attacked again) stay away from situations where the two of you are together alone. Worst thing to do is not tell, he will do it to someone else and probably did it before...protect yourself and your mom...God bless

is this true?? if yes just go up to her and tell her right now!!!

omg im so sorry

if that happened to me, i would be scarred for life.

you should just tell her, and move out of the house away from him!

You MUST tell your mom and the police.

You definitely should tell your mother and you should also go to the police about it.

Tell her and make sure he is there to hear it. If he has the nerve to touch you he should have the BALLS to listen to what he did to you.

1 tell ur mom
2 get a restrain ing order
3 aviod him
4 get help some how some way ( police )

You are an adult and need to call the police and report this. Just sit down with your mom and tell her. You should also go to the hospital for an exam and to the rape crisis center in your town. If he did this to you then he will do it again to someone else.

if u feel that strongly about it its something your just gonna have to sit and talk to her about.... its up to u but i think she needs to no

Why the hell would someone come on to Y!/A of all places, if something like that did actually happen?

report this to the police and let the law be the judge. Many times, the abused will remain quiet and then the perpetrator will think its all right for him to continue abusing or molesting the person.

Or tell your mom about it first. But if she seems to side with your stepfather you really should report this to the authorities.

You def need to tell your mom...but be prepared for her to no believe you do to you drinkin..you def need to report it!! Good Luck sweetheart and may god help you threw this diffucult tme..

I would tell her I hope to god she believes you like we do.

This isnt a question you should really be discussing on here. You need to go to a close friend or relative and discuss your options. May it be to go to the police or to talk to your mother or whatever you decide but you definetly dont need complete strangers discussing your unfortunate situation.

Tell your mom at any time you get with her. this is a VERY serios thing if your mother is married to this guy she should divorce him and you should stay away from him especially not be alone with him. if you get drunk again.......get drunk with your friends at least they won't malest you! but TELL YOUR MOM RIGHT AWAY!!!!!

I know how difficult it is...I've been through similar...I didn't tell anyone...it still haunts me now. Don't make the mistake I did in keeping silent, speak out. It is going to hurt to say it, it may be really difficult, especially if you're really close to the person you're telling. But do it. Sometimes, the only way out of darkness is to light the fire ourselves.

tell your mom and get away from that douche

You could try telling your friends, you dont have to tell them everything if you dont want to, just say 'he tried' to put his hand down your pants instead. Maybe even tell some male friends, I imagine they are far less bitchy and any lad would feel honoured that you came to them for help. Once you have told your friends, it might be easier to tell your mum. With you and your friends, she is even mroe likely to take it seriously and believe you, then when you, your friends and your mum are on the same side, get rid of that creep!

go to the police and have them tell your mother

Are you sure it happened? If you where so drunk? Make sure of your facts and if it did... TELL the only thing to do!!!

Good luck

Tell your mother and report him to the police. You'd be doing yourself your mother and any other possible victims a favor. If you don't then you may as well condone his actions. If your mother gets mad at you then oh well. You have a right to justice.

i'm so sorry for what happened to u

Firstly, call the cops, tell them about what happened.

Then tell ur mum this :"hey mum, I dont know if i should tell u this, because u might not trust me. But this is also for u, so u know who step-father's REAL person is. If he can do it to me, UR daughter, he can do it to other women and girls.

Last night I over drank and got drunk. Step-father used that as an advance and molested me. He put his hands down my pants. And I"M UR DAUGHTER.

He's a child molester, and an incest.

I'm just telling u this to make u less surprised when the cops come to arrest him. Because I have called the cops."

;-`{} I'm truly very sorry to know this !!!~`~,~'~.~`-{-,-@ Now the longer you keep closed mouth about it; The harder it will be for your words of what you feel or ?know? took place`, harder to have others to know & or feel that your words are in truth !?! "Do'nt be afraid now !! If you want to keep the fact that you'd been drinking a secret; Should now be let known !!! "Trust me `.You are'nt the first,last or only 17 yr.old that has gotten drunk !! & the parents or even the law know nothing about it !! Now if you are keeping closed mouth just to "SAVE~FACE". then you're (STUPID)~!! & now if at all possible YOU've given some fool a chance to do it again !?! To you or someone`else!?! Furthermore It'll save your m0m from alot more heart ache if you get it over with s00ner !! She needs to know who she shares a bed with also !!! <G/L>~!! '`R'`r.r`r,`a.'w W w rRr-'-.-`-,-{-,-@

You need to tell the police what happened. And your mom.

Being that you are 20, I would just notify the police. Often parents actually sides with their "loved ones" and may talk you out of reporting this.

tell your mom and police





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