Suicidal thoguhts? help please??!
Question: I've been very depressed lately and I have been think about suicide. I know its not the right thing, and I want help really bad. I know that when i get over this I'll be glad that I didn't. I am too scared to tell my family or ask them for help. I was wondering who I should go to should I tell a friend and see if they do something. I need help. I want to be here to have kids and have a better life.
Thanks much.
Answers: I've been very depressed lately and I have been think about suicide. I know its not the right thing, and I want help really bad. I know that when i get over this I'll be glad that I didn't. I am too scared to tell my family or ask them for help. I was wondering who I should go to should I tell a friend and see if they do something. I need help. I want to be here to have kids and have a better life.
Thanks much.
I used to be that way I wanted to kill myself so bad... I just told a really good friends she went to the police... I'm glad she did because she saved my life. I'm totally happy now I'm still alive and now know that there was so much to live for.
please don't do it!! please don't!!
please go get some help tell a friend so that u can get it out whats bothering u and is bringing u to this limit!!
go to a counselor!! please!!
u will be glad u didn't kill yourself!
Hi, please read this if your thinking about suicide:
if the three dots are at the end of the pdf link then please remove the three dots.
http://www.hopeline.com/docs/suicide.pdf
just think about it. god gave you this life for a reason. and even if you dont believe in god, your still in this world for a reason. if your given the great gift of life dont just waste it. think about once your dead there is no going back (unless you believe in an afterlife) but still you will never be able to come back to this life. just have fun and treasure every moment. there are sooo many other ppl in this world that are dyeing every day and you should be thankful for the life you have.
hope this helps.
part of being a teen. i "tried" to kill myself when i was a youngster teen too. i say "tried" because had i really, truly wanted to die i would have. i just needed attention and help.
i now have a son i wouldn't trade the world for, so just know that its normal teen angst. there are many lines you can call and annonomyous (????) ways you can get it out
There is nothing in life that can't be overcome. And trust me making and raising babies is worth sticking around for.
Yes, by all means, talk to friends, call 1-800-273-TALK. they will listen...
Talk to anybody that you need to. In my case when I got bad my son went to his teacher, guidance counselor and he told me that I needed to admit myself so did they, Please talk to someone before it gets to that stage even if its a stranger. Take that first step, hiding it doesn't solve anything I know I still tend to do it. I been on anti depression drugs for years. The Veterans Admin has found me unable to work. Please seek help, call a friend, email me just reach out. PS I did spend a week as an inpatient and I still do biweekly appointments and still on meds
*****My son was paralyzed in a traffic accident when he was 17 thru all of that he still never gave and still saw that I needed help. Just because your a teenager doesn't mean that you can't feel sad.
i would go talk to a teacher that you totally trust. if you dont have a trusted teacher...
i would tell my parrents...
if you are scared about telling them. write them a note! they will talk you through it so u can get help!!!!
life is too short! dont finish it!!! please...
enjoy your life!!!
when i was younger id thinkabout suicide also going from a city to a small town where theres nothing to do no where to go dam n it was hard but i didnt and know im like i would of missed out in so many good things so talk to your parents have dr prescribe meds youll feel better after wards youll be like why the hell would i even think of that
ok, first off, suicide is never the answer. i am a hypocrite for saying that though. i have tried many times. too many to count. and obviously failed all of them too. dont do it. dont even try it. you will be in a worse place if you do. you will have to talk to a social worker at your school eveyone wil have a close eye on you. i have been through so much from things like sexual abuse by family to being bullied in school back to my family saying i should just kill myself already. i have mad it through it all things may be like crap now but they will look up. the teens are the worst years of your life and you will think of suicide alot but it is never the answer. think of the future, think of you dream girl your kids your house and all that good stuff. if need be keep a journal just let your feelings out.
THIS IS A PHONE # 1-800-273-8255 TO CALL AND BE ANONYMOUS YOU CAN TALK TO SOMEONE ONE ON ONE. DON'T DO ANYTHING TO HARM YOURSELF CALL HERE IF YOUR AFRAID TO TELL ANYONE I AM PRAYING FOR YOU.......GOD BLESS .I HAVE BEEN THERE
The biggest applause go to you for admitting that you have so much to look forward to in your life. When I was a teen I was very emotional, and extremely suicidal. I honestly needed someone to talk to sooo bad. I felt very alone, and very isolated. I didn't know who I could turn to so I thought the only way to deal with it was death. I am happy that I didn't kill myself. I found a great friend in the most unlikely of places. Find someone, anyone to talk to... be it a guidance counselor, or an anonymous hotline. Anyone who will listen, and I promise you... things will get easier, because whatever it is that is weighing on your mind will lift off. Keep thinking about those goals, and looking ahead, and one day you will be able to smile like me. (A spouse and 2 kids later) ;-)
Why don't you talk to a trusted teacher at school, or to your guidance counselor. They might be able to connect you with a therapist that can give you reduced rates. You should also see your doctor, who might prescribe an anti-depressant to get you through this so that you can deal with the psychological stuff you need to work on.
I'm glad that you recognize that life won't always be like this, and that you have some things in life that you are looking forward to. That is a positive sigh. At the same time, though, since you have been thinking about suicide, you do need to get some help. Talking to a friend might be helpful too, so that you know you have someone supporting you while you are down. They might have ideas about a counsellor or therapist too. Good for you for reaching out and asking for help. Keep doing that, and you will get through this.
If what your saying is you have a felling of DOOM... then you have a chemical imbalencment of your Brain.. its okay your not going to die just go and talk to your Doctor about some meds and positive things in your life.... its normally.. I used to have the feeling where Id go to bed lay in for ages not being able to sleep cause I was convinced the world was going to end.. and I am not insane.. I was depressed... this feeling of doom Hun makes nufing worth doing I know.. but you have to motivate yourself.. and get help cause this was your first step asking for advise .. now you have go get your help..
GO TO YOUR DOCTOR... tel him or her how down' your feeling.. Im telling you is okay...you just have a chemical imbalencment they can give you meds and honestly they WORK! they take that yucky feeling away
Call the crisis line right now and talk to a professional:
1-800-273-TALK (8255), dialed from any phone in the United States, will connect you to a crisis line
hang in there! watch this video.
http://youtube.com/watch?v=NCEuV0qIFvY
God have I been there before. Still am. I am 16 and very depressed. I have suicidal thoughts all the time. I do not think I would ever act on them, because I am to chicken sh*t to go through with it, but I think about it a lot. Life is pain and pain is hell. You just have to go on. Even as sad as you are, Just keep going. Thats what I do, because someone I have a little piece of hope that my life may get better.
P.S. Doesn't this picture just sum up depression? http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Image:Vince...
