I kinda want to live, but I don't see how I can...?!
Question: Because I don't want to have kids, or travel,or study; and I don't think I could hold up a job or find a partner. Should I commit suicide? It seems like the only option...
Answers: Because I don't want to have kids, or travel,or study; and I don't think I could hold up a job or find a partner. Should I commit suicide? It seems like the only option...
So you don't want to do anything, thats ok just don't till you decided what to do.
Things are not going to just happen wait it out for a little bit`if you commit suicide ( which I'm not against ) you'll never know what was in for you in ur life.
Remember death is certain but by living you'll see what your history was.
go see a doctor
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See a doctor.
absolutely not
ha maybe.
but then the friends/family you do have will be hurt.
no don't do that...please call a family member or doctor or go to the ER now...you can't live with these feelings...someone needs to help you...
See this site: http://www.metanoia.org/suicide
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
its not the only option
alot of people dont want kids or dont like to travel or study
eventually, things will work out
trust me
good luck
it's never a good option. God gave you life and it is not yours it's his. You do not have permission to destroy somethign that does not belong to you. See a doctor. talk to someone.
first off. you should definitely not kill yourself. you don't have to have kids or travel. and you just think you can't hold a job. thats you just think negative but i bet you could hold a job. i bet there are a lot of things you could do if you weren't so hard on yourself. hang in there.
it will be your loss in the long run if you do and you can appreciate yourself more than you are at this moment. always remember we get past things - things pass so hang in and find an interest! don't you like to travel, see the world? the world really is a great place you're just stuck in a bad spot right now.
no - u will find a new zest for the above things if u go to your doctor and get a serotonin supplement - because it seems ure body isnt good at making enough of it (it clears it away too fast if ure into medicine)
in the morning i take a vitamin supplement and a serotonin supplement (anti depressant) theres no shame in it - its just part of my routine. And I get that love of life back that I had as a kid and lost as a teenager!!!! go visit ure doc.
best of Luck x
No!!!Have you ever seen great people?They had times like this!You work hard and dont mess up and you may become the richest man.
you can't really be serious....
over the past 8 months, i've lost three friends in a car accident, one friend to an inoperable brain tumor, a grandpa, and seen all my friends leave for college....
thoughts of suicide have never once crossed my mind, im only 17. why are you even drawing attention to yourself...
Just remember that you only live once, and it's up to you on how choose to live it. Ending your life because you currently feel that there is no point in living because you don't want others might want? Don't do it. We all live our lives differently! Life is filled with many ups and downs, and if we got all of life's gifts at once, how would we be able to appreciate each single gift?? Just sit back, relax, and take life as it comes at you.
Personally I don't prefer medication over natural remedies, but it might work wonders for you. I guess you could try it out and see how you like it. It takes quite a while to even have an effect on you though. I would suggest taking up a hobby. Find something to love to you. You don't even have to really be good at it. Just something to do with your free time to take your mind away from other things. By getting involved with something you may meet some new people you find you have a lot in common with. Also I would try to do something relaxing, like reading or yoga just to balance your mind. I think you'll eventually learn that there are many things to live for. Sometimes it just takes a while for things to fall into place.
Suicide is never the answer. Jesus is the answer. He died to save you. Don't be selfish and waste the life that he gave you. Look to the Bible for answers to life's questions. Get involved in church. Find one you are comfortable attending and one that accepts you no matter what. Contrary to what you may believe, not everyone is out to get you. I accept you for whatever you are or believe. I do not judge you and God doesn't either.
its no answer..dont do it, find someone who will help you who is close by. If you want to find some meaning in you life, start by helping others who are worse off than you, but above all get some help, mental and or physical, please, dont wait till it feels worse. Please dont, you will hurt people you love.
If life is that bad for you then go for it. If you really want to delete yourself from this crappy planet with so much dome and gloom, just wait around a little longer and we can all go together. Hang in there!
Suicide is not the only option. Call a mental health hot line. It's anonymous, and they can help suggest alternatives. You've done the right thing to start talking.
Suicide isn't an option its a cope out. You don't have to have kids or travel or study. You don't have to date but you will need to support yourself.
If you are seriouse get some help.
Hey friend, there are soooo many things worth living for in life. You can decide not having kids, everybody deals in relationship problems, and we all get depressed in life. While there are bad times we must appreciate the good times. So just relax a bit, count to 10, and think of good memories. Hang in there buddy. Life is worth living. We only get one shot at life and we need to keep on going! You are not the only person who has bad times. NO YOU SHOULD NOT COMMIT SUICIDE!!! I don't know you but we are still brothers in the human race.
That is not an option! If you are that depressed get help. I just lost a friend to the gun yesterday because he was depressed and off of his meds. You don't want others to have to go through that hell. Get help, nothing is that bad. You will feel better!. There are so many things to do and see, you can't emagine. If you need to talk to someone, we are all here for you.
I think you could definitely find a partner. A job too. There is undoubtedly a man and employer out there who is look for someone just like you!
Before you waste your life, contact me. You can give your life to me as my nanny :)
nope you may think that its your only option now but its definitely not your only choice see a doctor
Don't kill yourself. Think about the people who love you.
Well, you've said all the things you don't want to do - what is it that you do want to do in life? It's okay not to want any of those things, though I think you should ask yourself do you really not want them, or are you afraid of them? Don't sell yourself short, and don't kill yourself - that's just silly. :P I say it that way cause I've been there. Nobody should die for feeling lethargic at a certain point in their life - this isn't permanent, and besides, think of the people who would miss you. Suicide isn't just something you do to yourself. Give yourself time, and I suggest you consider finding a professional to talk to, cause it sure helps (not necesserilly a shrink, maybe a councilor or someone).
If you want to live, live. Absolutely. And it's ok to ask someone to help you figure out how. It'll be ok. :)
Much love
Well tell us more about yourself.. your thought process?.. I don't think you really do wanna kill yourself you just a need a valid reaon to live and you are looking for it in the obvious and typical places.. Just because you don't want kids, or to travel or study doesn't mean there is nothing else to life..
Maybe you should try and find true inspiration in people you admire or anything you are afraid to admit liking but believe it or not there are millions of people in the world who can understand you
there are a million other options out there ....just do what you want besides suicide that not the way to go....you will miss out on alot you dont need to have kids or study or get a job now just relax talk to someone maybe your friends or parents and tell them exactly how you feel but dont commit suicide its not the answer......do what makes you happy whatever it is you like and have fun it cant be that serious...
Stop right now and pray. I don't care where you are, what you are doing. Stop & pray & ask God to deliver you from that spirit of hopelessness that is on you right now. Ask God to show you his/her purpose for your life. Ask God to show you how to go about your purpose, how you can be an instrument for him/her to magnify, praise, & exalt Him/Her. I guarantee God will answer you, touch you, heal you. Just ask. It;s already worked out, you just gotta walk up & receive it. God is waiting. God is there & has been all along, wondering when you were going to come to Him/Her cuz he/she loves you & wants the best for you & does not want you to be confused, sad, nor depressed. Tell Satan you rebuke him in Jesus name. God gave us all free will so he/she won't force himself/herself on you but if you would just ask, oh, he/she is yearning to help you. Trust in the Lord with all thine heart and lead not to your own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge Him & he will direct your paths.
Please LIVE. Life is a gift- you may never been born or born just a cat or a dog- and please don't say no to it. You must be going through a difficult time in your life. It happens to everybody, including myself. Trust me,it will pass. Many people felt the same way, tried to commit a suicide, then regreted it. This difficult period in your life will pass and you will still have your life and will see the great meaning of it.
You can e-mail me and tell me your story anytime and we will figure out together what to do:) Take care of yourself.