Life is just so dreary...Help?!
Question: Sometimes, it seems like there is just no point at all in living. We all live and then...we die. Why not just end everything instead of having to suffer so much during the time between being born and then dying? You are just saving yourself the pain...or at least that is how I feel. I know that I am a total pessimist and put all of my energy into looking at things from a negative point of view. When I was a little kid, man, was I the opposite! The whole word was just such a wonderful place and I looked forward to tomorrow with hopes, wishes and dreams, and bright thoughts. I actually enjoyed living. Now, I ask myself, Why? I don't go a day without thinking about just dying. I am a 16 year old girl and a sophomore in high school. I barely have a social life, my parents are divorced, my schoolworks gotten worse, I hate every single particle of my body and I just want to disappear of the face of the universe and be nothing. Nothing at all. How wonderful to be nothing. No thinking, or pain
Answers: Sometimes, it seems like there is just no point at all in living. We all live and then...we die. Why not just end everything instead of having to suffer so much during the time between being born and then dying? You are just saving yourself the pain...or at least that is how I feel. I know that I am a total pessimist and put all of my energy into looking at things from a negative point of view. When I was a little kid, man, was I the opposite! The whole word was just such a wonderful place and I looked forward to tomorrow with hopes, wishes and dreams, and bright thoughts. I actually enjoyed living. Now, I ask myself, Why? I don't go a day without thinking about just dying. I am a 16 year old girl and a sophomore in high school. I barely have a social life, my parents are divorced, my schoolworks gotten worse, I hate every single particle of my body and I just want to disappear of the face of the universe and be nothing. Nothing at all. How wonderful to be nothing. No thinking, or pain
You sound like a very intelligent girl, and from what I see you have a GREAT Future in front of you. It is just that at the moment everything looks bleak for whatever reason. Maybe it's because your parents are divorced. Maybe it's ... something else.
Try and get off the 'pessimistic waggon' you are on, because basically you are an Optimist :)
It is Your Life and whatever you make of it, it is your creation. You are the Master of your Mind. If you want your mind to have those thoughts and make you miserable with negative thoughts, it is up to you.
Look at yourself in the mirror and find the things that you LIKE ... don't look at the things that you Don't like. We all have our flaws and have to learn to live with them. But when you concentrate on the Positive ... the Positive will grow and the negative will eventually be minimised and be overpowered by the positive because you want it to be.
Live is full of wonderful things!! You just need to look for it. Go to a park, look at the pretty flowers, or a wonderful sunset, or perhaps a beautiful bird in the tree.
Get a puppy or a kitten and take care of it. Make it your responsibility to give love and affection to the little creature. You be amazed how wonderful it feels to get the love of a puppy :)
We are surrounded by beauty, we just need to open our mind to let beauty enter us.
Wishing you Love, Happiness, and Peace of mind and spirit.
Namaste
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oh lord, you are going to feel silly abut this whole thing in a couple years. my dear, life is a grand experience. it is fraught with heartache, tragedy, and pain and yet each day i look around and conceive of the massiveness of the world, the universe, the blue, blue sky and i can't help but to feel i am in the middle of a miracle. Change your perspective and you have the power to change your very reality. There probably isn't one person who hasn't felt this way at one point in life but we grow older and we change in ways you can't imagine right now but i can tell you, the best is yet to come....so hang in there. I have done horrible things to myself, to others, i have wanted to die but here i am in my thrities so glad to be alive EACH AND EVERY DAY.
Get a pet
A whole 16 years old, life hasn't even started yet, why give up.Why wash dishes, they get dirty again! Mr right will come along, you will get a job/career, then get money and enjoy life, maybe have kids and have a great life. Keep the studies happening, you'll get there.If you take yourself out of this life/world/ whatever,who is the loser? YOU, because you dont grow up and learn what this planet is really all about. No, I could be wrong, maybe we would be the losers, FAMILY ,friends, even yahoo answers friends,.thats what we are here for. So do you think of YOU or your family and friends? be kind to yourself.Seriously talk to doctor if you are feeling this bad, you can get help.