Waht is the wrong if you kill yourself?!


Question: There are two key things that make suicide a 'wrong' option. However, I do want to distinguish suicide from hastening the end of life for people with terminal conditions. I am NOT including that type of suicide in what I am saying.

Firstly, despite what the suicidal person feels, there is a very real possibility that their life can change and improve and they can feel more fulfilled in themselves and contribute to others. Secondly, the pain and hurt of the people who know the suicide is often unbearable and lifelong. Parents, siblings, friends, professionals - all, including those who the suicidal person may have fallen out with, will feel guilty, distressed, disturbed etc.

I know that many people contemplating suicide (I was one, once) have in their mind thoughts like "then they'll be sorry" or "at last they will know I really meant it was unbearable". However, there is no getting round the fact that people's reaction is not always what the person may have hoped for or wished; that the bit they have always missed is how much people DO care about them; and they won't be around to find out, anyway. So a third 'wrong' might be that it dishonours the very person who has enacted this - in the sense of not honouring their real place in the world.


Answers: There are two key things that make suicide a 'wrong' option. However, I do want to distinguish suicide from hastening the end of life for people with terminal conditions. I am NOT including that type of suicide in what I am saying.

Firstly, despite what the suicidal person feels, there is a very real possibility that their life can change and improve and they can feel more fulfilled in themselves and contribute to others. Secondly, the pain and hurt of the people who know the suicide is often unbearable and lifelong. Parents, siblings, friends, professionals - all, including those who the suicidal person may have fallen out with, will feel guilty, distressed, disturbed etc.

I know that many people contemplating suicide (I was one, once) have in their mind thoughts like "then they'll be sorry" or "at last they will know I really meant it was unbearable". However, there is no getting round the fact that people's reaction is not always what the person may have hoped for or wished; that the bit they have always missed is how much people DO care about them; and they won't be around to find out, anyway. So a third 'wrong' might be that it dishonours the very person who has enacted this - in the sense of not honouring their real place in the world.

its selfish will u cause more hurt if u killed yourself.

Suicide is an easy way out life does get better you need to talk to someone dont hurt yourself because your unhappy you can fix this with a little persistence life doesnt always suck just sometimes.

Are you thinking of doing it?If so, then think about this first(obviosly I dont know you or family),how much are your family going to suffer, wondering why, what they could have done, how are they going to cope without you,etc,etc. Your friends, best and just close friends,do you really think they wont miss you, and wonder why you did it. and there are a 1000 other reasons not to. please seek help, I dont know where you are, but help is everywhere, and not hard to find.

i dont think suicide is bad if life is that bad it is a good option for me but i dont know about you you migt have people who love yo and care for you

No harm, you can kill yourself because just a fraction after your death, you were going to get all the happiness of the world. All your wishes, desires were to be fulfilled. The most loss will be others too as they can not utilise things made for you. It will go wasted.

Nothing. Death is a GIFT. Your family and friends, on the other-hand, will be so overcome with jealousy that they will be miserable all the time.

you know this is so silly life is a gift God gave us life now if you know God you know you have a place in heaven and also if you know God you know killing your self is a sin that cant be forgiven now if you died tonight do you know if you well go to heaven I know I well but if you would like the heat of hell then you have a to think HELL OR HEAVEN !!!!!!.





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