I Think i am moving too fast.?!


Question: I know this is going to sounds a little odd... especially with my age (13 years old) and the fact that i am a guy.... Anyways i keep thinking about my future life with that special someone and getting married and things like that... Oh and also i keep wanting something more in my life... not like i want to be adventurous or have loads of women (Women are people in my opinion and NOT objects) But... to love someone... i know i must be too young to start thinking about these things but they are just always there in my mind floating around and consuming my every thought... So i need to know if this is natural or if i should get some kind of counseling or something like that... Thanks for the help


Answers: I know this is going to sounds a little odd... especially with my age (13 years old) and the fact that i am a guy.... Anyways i keep thinking about my future life with that special someone and getting married and things like that... Oh and also i keep wanting something more in my life... not like i want to be adventurous or have loads of women (Women are people in my opinion and NOT objects) But... to love someone... i know i must be too young to start thinking about these things but they are just always there in my mind floating around and consuming my every thought... So i need to know if this is natural or if i should get some kind of counseling or something like that... Thanks for the help

It is TOTALLY natural. Biologically, puberty is the time people start thinking about such things. Depending upon your personality, there may or may not be such an acute interest in marriage/love/family/future; some kids are going to be thinking about different things. However, where you are is very normal for lots of boys your age.

My guess is that you are a sweet kid, nurturing, etc. Am I right? When you do find your future you are going to be a really good guy with a great wife and family.

Ofcourse it's natural. Very common infact that people your age think about this stuff all the time.

I think you are thinking way too far in advance. Why don't you slow yourself down & enjoy all the stuff that is happening now & in the near future? You have PLENTY of time to worry about marraige, etc. These are some of the best years of your life!

Thinking earlier than others doesn't always mean
that you can be better on that.
Just write down what you have thought and it'll make it clear
what you've thought of.
Don't spend so much time. Mostly its just wasting time after all.

i did that too at ur age. its a sign of maturity. congratulations.

its natural
but sont worry about that
not to be mean but i doubt you will still be wif this guy when u is ready to get married

relax.........just ask some people you trust, that will have your best interest at heart. Age 13 was fun and confusing for me. I wish I had asked people with a little more age or experiece in these matters when I was your age. Asking for help is not a sign of weakness, it just means "I don't know" or "tell me what you think". This is a healthier approach to this question because the people you choose will have a better frame of reference regarding you, than people who don't know you in the first place.





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