I feel Bad....?!
Question: My mom has been cheating on my dad for a couple months now and I just found out last week. Everyone knows and so thats the story, but How can I get over this? How can I feel a little better? I know its not my fault, ect, ect, but just me personally. What can I do? to feel better
Answers: My mom has been cheating on my dad for a couple months now and I just found out last week. Everyone knows and so thats the story, but How can I get over this? How can I feel a little better? I know its not my fault, ect, ect, but just me personally. What can I do? to feel better
i know how you feel and it will take some time to get over it but you will just find something to occupie your mind or some one to talk to that has been threw the same thing,it is not your fault they are adults and they will take care of the matter there selfs,hopefully it will turn out for the good,i am 42 and my parents have been divorced for 38 years,i do hope that they can work things out but dear they will never be the same,i am hear if you need a friend though.
Look at the mistake she has made, and learn from it. That is the best thing you can do. You can also have a talk with both of them, it might help get some of your emotions off your chest. It'll be okay.
its been a huge shock for you hasnt it, bless you. all i can suggest is that you try and get on with your life as best you can, the hurt will subside in time.
I am sorry sweetie I don't know for me I just had to work through make sure you talk about and get your feelings out and let them both know you love them.
when youre a kid, your parents are like gods. seriously. what they do or say is law. you dont realize just how human and imperfect they are. its hard growing up to transition out of that phase, and often times you only acknowledge certain parts of them as being human, while others, to you, are still godly. my advice is to look at the other mistakes your mother has made and realize shes a person as a whole. only then can you take away this childhood concept of your parents, and, hopefully, take away the pain as well.
Why do you feel bad? You didnt do anything. Is it you feel bad, or is it that you really dont know how to feel, so you chose bad? Maybe try to talk to your parents about it. Tell them how you feel about the whole situation. It does affect you so they should know how it affects you. In the mean time try to stay busy. Go out with your friends and do the things that you enjoy. Take care of yourself. This can be traumatic for some people.
If you live in a large area, you may be able to find a support group...ask your school counselor. Good luck to you.
Dear Frd, i sorry to hear that, but i know your feelings too. It happened to my family too. I hope your parents will patch up and dont feel bad, if you feel like crying, just cry out once and then back to your normal life, This is not your fault and Adults will settle themselves, You have my support.