Should I run away, or commit suicide or both?!


Question: Elizabeth, you've gotta start taking control of your life...asking people on Yahoo Answers whether you should kill yourself or not is the worst thing you can possibly do, because it removes any control from you. I'd like to think that at heart you don't want to commit suicide, but I'd rather that you make the decision for yourself than just let a bunch of random strangers decide one of the most important decisions of your life.

That said, running away from home might be helpful. Stay at a friend's house for a night or rent a room at a motel, and just mull things over. But please, don't let someone else decide your future for you.

Since you asked this question three times, you're going to get at least 100 responses. If you read them, fine. But whatever you do, make the decision for yourself, after some careful deliberation.


Answers: Elizabeth, you've gotta start taking control of your life...asking people on Yahoo Answers whether you should kill yourself or not is the worst thing you can possibly do, because it removes any control from you. I'd like to think that at heart you don't want to commit suicide, but I'd rather that you make the decision for yourself than just let a bunch of random strangers decide one of the most important decisions of your life.

That said, running away from home might be helpful. Stay at a friend's house for a night or rent a room at a motel, and just mull things over. But please, don't let someone else decide your future for you.

Since you asked this question three times, you're going to get at least 100 responses. If you read them, fine. But whatever you do, make the decision for yourself, after some careful deliberation.

talk to someone.now.

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None of the proposals is a solution. Seek professional help immediately.

sleep, rest, and in the morning, make an appointment with a doctor!
dont do anything that you will regret!... if you do, make sure your still ALIVE to regret it!
tresure life, its the best thing you have!, dont harm your body, its your temple, the only one youve got!
just try realise how lucky you really are! there are people much worse then you

good luck!

go somewhere alone and think it all out from where it started.

you'll feel better before you know it!

Well, neither, but if you are serious, just run away, and find someone to talk to.

If youve got the cash have a holiday in the sun and see how thing look when you get back. If not see doc.

Go to the phone and call a crisis hot line right now. No need to hurt yourself over family problems...you have something to give the world...PLEASE GO TO THE PHONE AND CALL CRISIS HOT LINE OR 911 THEY WILL GET YOU OUT OF THERE

Neither.

http://www.metanoia.org/suicide

If those are the only options availiable, run away, think long and hard about your problems and find a solution. There always is one, but if you commit suicide you will never find it.

Even if it takes a long time, you will figure it out. Also, there is professional advice availiable for you when you are ready.

Take things at your speed, but think through things and take one day at a time.

Good luck, take care x

Neither one. I lost my son to suicide and I am always sad because he wasted the most precious gift we have, our LIFE. Please don't hurt yourself because that does not solve any problem. You must find someone you trust to talk with and I would strongly suggest a professioinal person whose field is in counseling. Take time to think things through and you won't ever regret your decision because rash decisions seem like good ideas at the time but never turn out to be that way. Trust yourself and learn to love yourself and not worry about what others think of you. You must be true to yourself before you can answer any questions that plague you.
PE

Phone a suicide hot line now! Suicide is not an option. Good luck, remember what you are looking for today might come around tomorrow. Always have hope and know that God loves you.

I get so sick to death of these questions!!!

If you want real help then ask real questions!!!

You have given no details as to whats wrong - how the hell are we meant to advise.

No one here is going to tell you to commit suicide. Honestly is it just me or is everyone else fed up with this type of question as well???

I'm not sure why you would think that either of these would solve your problem. It sounds like you need some help. If you don't want to go to a hospital or talk to someone local, try
www.dailystrength.org
They are a great resource for people with pretty much any problem you could think of.
I'm not sure what your problem is but is sounds like you feel it's bad. I'll pray for you.

Wish you would elaborate on the situation so we knew why you were asking.
But if these are the two options you are giving, don't commit suicide. I ran away twice in my teens because of a bad home environment. They sent me to a group home so I could be safe. But instead of running away and wondering who's going to take care of you, call the local crisis center. They will help you with whatever you need help with.

You should do neither
Talk about whats happening to you and what is going on in your life to someone you know and love
If you cant do that try and explain to one of us what is going on
There are alot of helpful people on this site who can help you through whatever is going on
running away from your problem is never the solution

When I felt like that, I would usually run away. Remember you are too precious to ever hurt yourself - you are beautiful no matter what you feel right now - don't forget.
If you really start with a suicide, you can just walk over to the local hospital and check yourself in voluntarily to the hospital. Inside you will find people just like you , normal people who felt the way you do. they will all reassure you and you will feel better. In the meanwhile, you get a room for yourself and people to wait on you, meals, baths etc.
you can just chill and who knows, you can stay for a day, a week or a month. By then you can figure out your next move. The people out the hospital are great and will help you and support you. You can leave as soon as you want. If you go in, you can check out right away, yes just Like Britney (joke)
Don't run away unless you have money or things can get ugly. Maybe a friend can put you up for a few days.

Get some meds from a good doctor, and remember, THIS TOO SHALL PASS
LOVE KATT

Neither! Please talk to someone about your depression and wanting to end your life. Here is a helpline: 1-800-SUICIDE

The National Runaway Switchboard also has a helpline: http://www.1800runaway.org Please stay safe! Those that you leave behind will Never get over the hurt and ache of someone who's committed suicide.

Im not sure what the prob is but NIETHER!! I love you.

neither do not do either i sware do not do EITHER! ok there may be some problems going on in your life right now that you are going through but its gonna be ok. it really will. please talk to someone, a trusted adult, a teacher, a friend, ESPECIALLY the school counselor if you are in school. never ever do anything like this. God put you on this earth for a reason , he would never forget about you, he loves you so much and will always love you and care for you, have trust have belief. we all care about you and please never harm yourself. please do not run away or commit suicide. dont do it. talk to someone and remember, its going to be ok...it will. God bless you. you hafta be brave, its ok. God bless you. i will keep you in my prayers always.

Neither!
I was depressed and still am, End of last year, I tried to commit succide 9 times in less than 3 months. Yet, that doesn't bring anything to anyone, neither to you nor to your loved ones.
If it's the situation at home the hardest to cope, just get out of the house for long walk, saying where you're going. Seek some professional help. Meditation and relaxation helped me a great deal. Deep slow breathing. If you're in UK , you can call ambulance or even police to take you to hospital (I've asked that 3 times and always helped).
There's always light at the end of the tunnel, even if it's a long one.

i would like to know why you want to take your life by suicide ,,or run away ,nothing is that bad will you talk to someone about it, or just get back to me and tell what is so wrong that it cant be fixed.i want to tell you this i am a mother of two children who took there lives and i want to be with them because i am so tired and miss them so very much my heart is broke in two because i have two other children to look after but i am still here with good help i got .so talk to your mother or get good help ,please don't put your family through this take care and stay with your family a bit longer .

I've been there honey and i tell you it ain't worth it. i don't know if you're married, single or whatever but i'm sure you have your parents, a brother, a sister, a loved one, or children maybe? don't you love them? don't you care about them? think of them, i know they love you very much no matter what you are. don't think of what other people may say. listen to your heart. be brave little one. good luck!!!!

Try calling the Samaritans (08457 909090). They'll be able to offer you instant support and help with coping. I've posted a link below which I hope you'll find helpful. I've been through depression a couple of times myself and I can vouch that there is a light at the end of the tunnel - however long the tunnel is. Take care - I hope you recover soon.

Email me!
Talk :)
Im good at listenin
x

neither!
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If you decide on suicide.. make sure that it is done in a way to make it look like an accident otherwise your insurance wont pay up and you dont want to leave the burdon of a funeral on to anybody now do you....try running away first to a warm place you might be feeling the winter blues...spend all your money....sell all your possessions...and go out with a BANG

ok baby you need to listen and listen now. NONE OF THESE SOLVE ANYTHING!!!! You need help! never ever hurt yourself! Hun, people care about you, you may not think so, but people do!





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