I am very depressed?!


Question: i have acne, am overweight, didnt get into uni (and being degraded about it) everyone thinks im a dummy. my mums been through 2 divorces. Everytime she talks to me i get angry and sometimes cry. i am so deprssed i dont know waht to do anymore. ive been rejected by 4 guys in 2 years who ended up going with one of my friends. I have taken councoling and it dosnt work. i am mentally fuked and i have no idea where to start. I exerzise now but cysts on my face keep coming. i feel ugly all the time but still eat my guts out. im not too overweight now ive lost alot, but im still judged because of it. Gosh wtf do i do now? there is no one i can talk to because they will say im over reacting, which im sure i am anyway but that dosnt stop it hurting. im in a no win situation and god is the only one who will listen. i have nothing


Answers: i have acne, am overweight, didnt get into uni (and being degraded about it) everyone thinks im a dummy. my mums been through 2 divorces. Everytime she talks to me i get angry and sometimes cry. i am so deprssed i dont know waht to do anymore. ive been rejected by 4 guys in 2 years who ended up going with one of my friends. I have taken councoling and it dosnt work. i am mentally fuked and i have no idea where to start. I exerzise now but cysts on my face keep coming. i feel ugly all the time but still eat my guts out. im not too overweight now ive lost alot, but im still judged because of it. Gosh wtf do i do now? there is no one i can talk to because they will say im over reacting, which im sure i am anyway but that dosnt stop it hurting. im in a no win situation and god is the only one who will listen. i have nothing

You do seem to have a case of the " mean reds" ( reference Breakfast at Tiffanys). You say you have lost weight. Take pride in that. You need to take some control back in your life and if losing weight is your first step then keep at it. See a doctor about your skin and get a referral to a specialist. Go to a health food store and seek some afvice about a cleansing tea or similar product that can help remove the toxins from your system. You say you believe in God, then seek support from your local church, maybe a social group at which you will meet people with a more caring attitude.
Whatever you decide to do, approach it realistically and with purpose. Volunteer to help others who are in need. There is nothing like contact with those worse off than ourselves to give us some perspective. Good luck.

Gods a pretty good start, you need an attitude adjustment. You are attracting things because of your attitude. Get the movie "the secret" that will help get your mind back in controle and then get soe metaphysical self help books from amazon about attracting the things you want in life. You can do it. And definitely talk to God, but are you listening? Good feelings while you are talking are responces and spiritual thoughts are responces, respond back. See what happens! See my blog thats listed on my profile and read every entry, they are small and will help I absolutely PROMISE!

Age?

First...I have survived severe depression

if someone dumps you and starts going out with your friends then those 2 people ARE NOT YOUR FRIENDS=

THOSE ARE CALLED "SNAKES"

YOU ARE A CHILD OF GOD..YOU ARE LOVED
YOU ARE HERE NOT FOR YOUR OWN HAPPINESS AND ENTERTAINMENT=
"GOD DOESNT MAKE JUNK"

I WAS TOLD THAT ONCE=YOU KNOW WHAT THAT MEANS???

MORE PEOPLE LOVE AND CARE ABOUT YOU THAT YOU PROBABLU DONT KNOW

TAKE YOUR PROBLEMS SLOWLY

ACNE=CAN BE TREATED WITH MEDS AND DIET
WANNA GET RID OF IT??
NO CHOCOLATE,NO DARL POP/SODA/NO CHIPS/NO JUNK FOOD GREASE

LOSING WEIGHT?
IF NOT...TRY EATING 1/3RD OF EVERYTHING YOU NORMALLY EAT= GET THE ADVIL READY YOU WILL HAVE HEADACHES WHEN YOU CUT BACK=IN 3 MONTHS YOU WILL LOOK FANTASTIC

REJECTED BY GUYS?
GUYS WHO REJECT YOU WERE NOT MEANT TO BE IN YOUR LIFE= IVE BEEN DUMPED MANY TIMES AND IVE DUMPED A FEW GIRLS IN MY TIME

ONCE YOU UNDERSTAND THAT NO MAN IS WORTH PAIN UNLESS HE IS A TRUE FRIEND

A TRUE FRIEND WOULD NOT WANT TO HURT YOUR FEELINGS WHETHER YOU STAY IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH IM OR NOT

LET THE PEOPLE WHO REJECT YOU GO

KEEP CALM..WAITING FOR A KIND PERSON TAKES A LONG LONG TIME BUT HE WILL COME

JUST NOT WHEN YOU THINK

PEACE AND GOD BLESS
GET SOME MEDS IF YOU ARE CRYING ALOT=GO TELL THE DOCTOR YOU FEEL OVERWHELMED

PEACE AND GOD BLESS YOU

Firstly, you are not alone, and your situation is not hopeless. No matter how bad your situation, there is always someone worse off than you. It's very difficult for you to see that right now.
I have suffered with depression 33 years, much of that was undiagnosed and untreated. Now I accept treatment, and the fact that i probably inherited this condition as my Mother also had it.
You do need support, so a different counsellor may be needed. Gosh, there is so much advice I could give you!
However, much of what I have learned is from reading books on depression.
Oh, and please, ring lifeline when the going gets rough; it really helps, they are wonderful people!
Email me on pennee_2@yahoo.com.au if you wish.
Don't quit trying!





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