Off my chest?!
Question: OK!! What is it with people on this site comming in and saying they want advice or help not to committ suicide.
What is it with you people doing exactly what they want by pandering to their self endulgent whim???
People come here, make a comment and we all jump to them and say... "your life is worth living, your a worthwhile person" blah blah blah.
We need to stop them from thinking they are victims... they are NOT.. they are doing nothing but sucking the kindness out of you all.
There are genuine people out there that have no choice, my Mum had a child at primary school who committed suicide.. PRIMARY SCHOOL.. he was younger than 12.. do you really belive he understood what he was doing? HE had no choice!!
At 15 - 30 we make the concious choice to do what we do... and to say otherwise, to go to chat boards and declare our intentions is nothing but blackmail and rubbish.
Report this if you must, do what you want, but I would love to hear what others really belive
Answers: OK!! What is it with people on this site comming in and saying they want advice or help not to committ suicide.
What is it with you people doing exactly what they want by pandering to their self endulgent whim???
People come here, make a comment and we all jump to them and say... "your life is worth living, your a worthwhile person" blah blah blah.
We need to stop them from thinking they are victims... they are NOT.. they are doing nothing but sucking the kindness out of you all.
There are genuine people out there that have no choice, my Mum had a child at primary school who committed suicide.. PRIMARY SCHOOL.. he was younger than 12.. do you really belive he understood what he was doing? HE had no choice!!
At 15 - 30 we make the concious choice to do what we do... and to say otherwise, to go to chat boards and declare our intentions is nothing but blackmail and rubbish.
Report this if you must, do what you want, but I would love to hear what others really belive
As a person suffering from mental illness but not suicidal, I can say the people who come on here professing the need for suicide are not. What they want is some support from anyone. They do not feel that they are getting that support in real life. So they turn here and want to hear someone say "You have to keep on trying and you need to seek help". None of these people have a shoulder to lean on and we are their only lifeline. I don't judge anyone. I see here on Y/A all sorts of questions that I wonder why they are asked. I see all sorts of stupid answers. I am at level 6 and I only hope that out of all the 2800+ answers I have given one person has gotten something out of what I have typed. Anymore people than that is great.
Sometimes I must turn away from a certain section because it hurts me too much. But then I realize that if the questions affect me, then I am really understanding what that person needs. So I go back to that section.
it is nothing wrong with telling people they have something to live for.
These people turn to others for some help and support, we try to give it.
You are entitled to "get it off your chest", but I have been depressed most of my life. I know how some of these people feel, and will try to help out anybody I can. Some of them are probably "sucking us dry" but what if we can help just one person? I just can't take a chance on "letting them blow off steam" and do nothing. That's how I feel about it.
When some people are feeling down and worthless and have nobody, they turn to the internet for an ego boost, anything to help them have a reason for waking up in the morning.
So when they go on yahoo and say that they want to kill themselves or something of that sort. they KNOW people are going to tell them positive things about them, and positive things about life.
and even though these people may be strangers, when they hear these Kind words they have a feeling of self worth and a reason to wake up the next day with a positive state of mind.
man what happened to you in life that made you so miserable and crappy about the other half of the human race?!...don't you get that when you are suicidal you usually have a chemical imbalance going on (clinical dperession/mental illness) and are usually so deep down in the soul depressed that they don't know what to do but figure perhaps suicide is the way to make the hurt or sickness they feel.. stop....?...and perhaps by going online they MAY get a caring person on the other end that gives two sh**s about what a person may do to harm themselves or others....this is a HUMAN we are talking about not an ant not a maggot...feel blessed or at least lucky that you have NO CLUE what they feel....oh and being anonymous helps...it's called a modern day version of a help line....and I can sure as hell bet that if it was YOUR mother who was ill OR if you lived perhaps an abusive life or if something very bad happened to you when you were younger....you'd want help or would do anything to help your mother...sister....father...brother....C... the picture genious...so do me and everyone else a favor an keep your thoughts to yourself....you're condemming people for going online to say what they feel YET you're doing the same thing??!!..huhh thank goodness for freedom fo speech huh??!!