I`m truly depressed, almost suicidal..?!


Question: I`m really depressed. I started to feel ugly annd useless. I don`t think I will ever become psychologist or have someone who truly cares about me. I miss my home country and my best friend.. I miss the times when I was young and I didn`t know too much. Also, I have problems when it comes to getting close to people and I don`t have confidence at all. I just wanna hide somewhere and never get out.


Answers: I`m really depressed. I started to feel ugly annd useless. I don`t think I will ever become psychologist or have someone who truly cares about me. I miss my home country and my best friend.. I miss the times when I was young and I didn`t know too much. Also, I have problems when it comes to getting close to people and I don`t have confidence at all. I just wanna hide somewhere and never get out.

I think there comes a certain time in our life when we feel like that.I was also depressed at one time and felt ugly because of my acne,but i came to realise that being depressed was taking up a large part of my life which i could have used to think about positive things and that i was missing out on all the good things.Just take it easy and every thing will be ok in due time,i know theres someone out there just for you,im sure your a wonderful person with a great personality.And about your friend well,life is an adventure and as it goes on you get a chance to meet different people and make new friends.getting close to people should be the least of your worries just be yourself.And no hiding just go out there and be the best you can be.And please dont commit suicide,you should know better than that.

Honey, im so sorry your feeling this way. I don't know your whole situation but, can't you go back to your home country? You should see a family doctor and get you some medicine for depression. I know you don't know me but feel free to email me and we can talk. branneal1@yahoo.com. Good luck.

I have been there, trust me I was feeling very suicidal and trying to figure out ways to make it look unintentional. But I stuck through for a little while and my life has gotten better. Suicide is not the answer. I was there just a few months ago.

To tell you frankly its as if I am seeing myself in a mirror...

But i am less depressed and am close to the people I hate,,

Just try to change the attitude..

forget everything..
and start afresh

I'm feeling the same way. I'm trying to think of something to do thats warm and comforting - get my mind off things. I'd recommend making a tea or coffee and lying on the sofa with a blanket to watch a movie. Its not gonna solve things, but its a bit of short term cheer. Im willing to chat if you want to - could do with someone.

Try to look at the good side to things. It helped me through my depression and anxiety. Make a list of all of the good things in your life. Release your feelings to someone you can trust or write/type every thought that comes to your mind that is making you feel bad. Then find ways to make yourself happy. Also accept that we cannot change the past. We just have to move on and look for new things to accomplish. Best of luck!!!

I feel the same.
Im on my own ALL the time.
I would prefer to be on my own 1000X more than i would with my massive group of "friends".
Scince i had my boyfriend the past year i never talk to anyone expept him.I feel excluded when i talk to them and invisable.
I just wna crawl in the corner and for no1 to notice me.
Just leave me be.
Ya'know.
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Im glad tht im not the only one who feels lyk this.
Can you try and help me with my problem please?
Thankyou x

Yahoo answers makes it possible to see the whole person. Having to learn a new language and about the different kinds of males is difficult. It can happen in any language but there are some variations. This is the time of month I believe when the female can become depressed easily. Depression affects the brain's ability to think well. Many mistakes are made in love. Depression needs you to have false expectations for life and love and as we can see life better we get depressed far less. Don't give up but stop chasing the winner-players . Sure they look great but there are loners like you that will be better friends. Oh sure it was exciting.

Being suicidal is not the answer. Tomorrow might be better. I know I've been there and done it all. Suicide is a cry for help, and when it don't get there in time, it can be to late. Luckily when I done it someone was there, and showed me they cared enough to help me though the bad times.
I missed my home, family, and childhood friends, but I was tied to a child and a husband in a different state, some 800 miles away.
When my friend stepped up and showed me I was worth the extra care, I started to take one step at a time and I got the help I needed.
With that help came a whole new out look on life, yes I still deal with bpd, but I'm on medicine, and I live one day at a time, some better then others. But with the help of my family and friends now I know I can make it.
Depression is something you should not play around with, get help. Step up to a few people and say hello, you might find out being in a group for depressed people can help.
There are others out there just like you, and one or more of you all get together you make friends, and there begins a whole new life.





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