Cutting and suicide?!
Question: A couple months ago I posted a question on how to stop my cutting(well it was really just scratches) I wouldn't bleed or anything...Well people told me it would get bad and it did. It got WAY worse..I am now cutting 3 - 6 times a day to where I bleed. I don't know what to do. I am also suicidal. I want to die bad. If it wasn't for my boyfriend Nathan I would have shoved pills down my throat a LONG time ago.
How do I stop cutting and wanting to kill myself? Trust me I have no family to talk to, there is only my bf!
Answers: A couple months ago I posted a question on how to stop my cutting(well it was really just scratches) I wouldn't bleed or anything...Well people told me it would get bad and it did. It got WAY worse..I am now cutting 3 - 6 times a day to where I bleed. I don't know what to do. I am also suicidal. I want to die bad. If it wasn't for my boyfriend Nathan I would have shoved pills down my throat a LONG time ago.
How do I stop cutting and wanting to kill myself? Trust me I have no family to talk to, there is only my bf!
First o you need to get to the route o the problem. What is making you eel this way ? How come you can't talk to your family ? I understad what you are going through. I elt suicidal before. At first I spoke to my amily about it but ater a while they didnt wan to hear it anymore. Man did I mess up bad. What I did was so stupid. I got mysel in this tight spot. Cause and effect. You reap what you sow. You need to get over what is bothering you. PLEASE DO NOT KILL YOURSELF. I know you probably can't get over this feeling. You need to in order to move on with your life. I wish I could switch places with you even for a moment. Just to not go through what I am going through at this moment. It would be such a relief. Count your blessings. Man you don't know how lucky you are.
Get professional medical and/or psychiatric help. Depression is an illness and it's treatable - go to your doctor ASAP!
YOu need to go see a counselor as soon as you can. Because you are cutting for a reason even if you don't know that reason. Working with a counselor will help you understand the need to cut, and how you can stop.
Trust me, you don't want to kill yourself. For your boyfriend, dont kill yourself. He will miss you like hell.
kill Nathan trust me it will make you feel better. you could just dull out the knife...................................... on your arm!!!!!! LOLOLOLOL jk'ing
Go to a chruch. ask the pastor of that chruch what to do, he will know
You should seek help from a counselor or a clinic. I believe there are also hotlines for people who are going through these feelings. Tell your regular physician as well. You have some form of depression and it can be caused by your environment or inbalances in brain chemicals. This doesn't mean you are a bad person or that you have control over these feelings. It's great that you have your boyfriend, but you need to seek medical help so that you won't have these tendencies and feelings the rest of your life. You are a great person and you are worth it, so get the help that you deserve.
Depending on where you are, if you are in australia I would suggest finding the nearest Grow group.
If not in australia find a psychologist you trust OR a mental health group to help you find your place in society.
Trust me at first you might feel a bit weird and maybe a be out of place but in a group setting soon you'll realise some of the people are going through exactly what you are.
Another thing is to hide all those knives and razors... I'd be happy to give you my email address and you can contact me anytime and I'll get back to you as soon as possible. Having a buddy who has gone through it all can help especially when you are sitting in the bathroom with the knife in your hand...
Go get help please! before it's too late...Yahoo answers people love you. Go to the doctor and get help fast!!!!!!!!!!
GET HELP. NO REASON TO CUT YOURSELF. YOU LIKE YOUR 12. LIFE HASNT EVEN STARTED!
You should go for some councelling.At least you realise that you have a problem,so that is a good start ..
i agree with the others on here that probably the best answer is to seek help. however, as a cutter for over 30 years, i felt it might be helpful to put it in perspective. many people are shocked and react negatively (yes, even the people who are supposedly there to help you sometimes) and that just gives it more power than it deserves. self-injuring is a dysfunctional way of coping. (some people say because it helps them stop feeling numb, others because the outward pain distracts from inward pain, still others because even though they hide it they secretly hope to get "found out" so that somebody recognizes how much agony they're in). it's also addictive as the cutting releases endorphins which literally (but very temporarily) make you feel better. that's why it tends to escalate. that's ALSO why the sooner you can find alternatives, the better. there are other ways to shock your system without damaging yourself - sticking your hand in a bag of ice cubes, snapping an elastic band against your wrist, etc. they aren't true cures, but they may help until you can find someone. for more information you may want to look into S.A.F.E. (self-abuse finally ends) online.
You need medical help. You may have family you don't want to talk to but you need to anyway. I have seen this before with a close friend of mine and you or your boyfriend can not get yourself out of this problem if is cause by depression. Prayer can also help, but I know you do not believe in God. He can change your life but I think you are unwilling. Regardless I am praying for you which I started a while ago when we fist talked.
Anyone else reading this please pray for this girl.
go to a counselor
thats the only way
telling yourself to stop cutting doesnt do anything
believe me
you need help
go to ur school counselor and tell them, they will help you
This site has a lot of useful links:
http://christiananswers.net/q-eden/cutti...
Also, consider giving this number a call...
Self Harm Hotline
1-800-DONTCUT
Help for "cutters"