Is this totally wrong?!
Question: ...the only things preventing me from suicide are...
1. my mom
2. i dont want people to remember me as the girl who killed herself
is that so wrong...only 2 reasons not to do it...i cant even think of #3
Answers: ...the only things preventing me from suicide are...
1. my mom
2. i dont want people to remember me as the girl who killed herself
is that so wrong...only 2 reasons not to do it...i cant even think of #3
It is not up to us to say, "You should or should not commit suicide".
However, before you do make such a decision, think things over...
1. There is always a solution to a problem
2. Imagine who would have to clean up the "mess" when you commit suicide
3. It is said that if a family member commits suicide, the chances of suicide amongst other members are higher
The two reasons you mentioned should be more than enough not to commit such a foolish act. You should go say your problems to a trusted friend or perhaps even a professional.
Life is precious
Um.... It's wrong. Dont think that way, smile and be happy
No. Everyone has different things stopping them from suicide.
For your number 1, you're trying to not be selfish about it. That's good.
2, is for the sake of your reputation. Idk about that, but being labeled as "the girl who killed herself" must suck. But people don't know any better. You may have a purpose to do this that they just don't realize.
Idk dude. Just please don't committ suicide. Not only for your moms sake, but for all the others that love you.
Also, don't do it for yourself. Things might be tough in life but you need to stay positive. We all hit our rough patches. Just please give your life another chance. Things will change and things will improve.
Its not totally wrong.. people feel that way sometimes. The thing is that its something that can be fixed. You have something that can be helped, you need to reach out to your mother and let her know so she can help you.
If you dont want to do that you can always go to any local planned parenthood in your town for free and they will help you..
aww pweez dont kill urself. There must be other reasons u must live like ur friends family hobbies just living life. life gets hard and u want to kill urself but if u push through u will hav many and lots of great times
Depression is not a fun experience. I have been there before, and when you are in that state of mind, Its hard to think of reasons to live, but TRUST ME, THERE ARE PLENTY OF REASONS TO LIVE. Besides your mom and your reputation, you also need to consider your future, and anyone else that you have met in your life. There is no doubt that you have had an impact on some people and without you, they will be immensely sad. I recommend you see a psychiatrist and talk with him/her. They are good at helping you find reasons to live, often giving you more positive than negative things. There is no reason to want to die. You have your whole life ahead of you, and just because right now is a rough spot is no reason to end it all. There is so much more to come for you. Just hang in there and don't be afraid to ask for help!
Only week people do suicide. Suicide is totally wrong
yes it is wrong- dont even think about doing it. everyone goes through things in thier life that are tough. we just have to fight it and eventually we will come out on top.
yes it`s wrong
The number 1 reason anyone should have for not killing themselves is..
1) i`m not going to give the world the satisfaction, i`m going to stick around as long as possible and be a pain in their *** and a thorn in their side.
There are a few people I've been acquaintences with who've committed suiced over the years and they're always remembered as selfish people. I don't think of them as selfish, I think of them as very sad people who didn't think the world could get any better. You should visit a psychologist, or more likely a psychiatrist. My aunt is on anti-depressant medication and she makes a living for herself and her family. She knows not to give up because she would leave behind her family, especially her kids and husband who would suffer without her and would lose their house. Please get help, there are many suicide hotlines and your physician can probably refer you to a psychiatrist immediately if you inform him/her of your feelings.
I would not say it is wrong it is just plain sad. You need to know you are not alone. There is help if you want it. I mean medical help. Death is so permanent and im guessing that you are young. You still have so much to live for you just dont know it yet. Whatever you are going thu will pass. You are the only one who can make the changes. It is all about positive thinking. I know easier said then done but can be done. Praying helps alot. Search for God and he will make himself be found. He promises that he will always make a way out if you only trust in him. God Bless and hang on. Please!
There are some real big time attention seekers in Y/A today!!!
Its a permenent solution to a temporary problem.In life the things that have made me want to do myself in have usaully been failure, heartbreak,learning disabilities, mental problems, and you know what there is a way to work around or deal with everyone of those problems.When my Dad died and I wanted to join him because I missed him so bad I just hung on and even that sadness passed .It still lingures but helping other people even answering questions can help depression.Go see a doctor and tell him how you feel.Maybe he will put you on meds its really often just a chemical imbalance it certainly helps me in that respect.Take care and try to find something fun to do.I force myself to watch comedy and comedians on comedy central sometimes they really help.Exercise to hip hop and dance it helps releive endorphins.
NO .....i want to kill my self so bad to thats wat i alway think about u should always think about ur mom in all the good **** u love to do shoping in how pplz well miss u even the ones who hate thats wats stoping me i wouldnt want anyone to kill them self because in the end u'll be the one they say not to be like u'll be the one mothers well run to there kidz in think there like u in they well hate u from mattering u shouldnt wanna hurt ur self u can get through wat ever ur goin through juz talk to someone or write or listen to music a sad song would help when iam sad i listen to plumb cut it alwayz makes me feel better its about wanting to die in cut but ur not alone i love da song u should try it or write
There are more reasons you just can't think of them right now. There are reasons that maybe don't yet exist, like a husband, children even enjoying retirement!
Things will get better if you let them. I have been there too, numerous times. But if you hold on things will get so much better.
DON'T be remembered as the girl who killed herself. Don't make any final decisions. Suicide is final.
#3 There are so many beautiful things in the world to see and do
#4 There are a lot of people who care about you and want you to be alive, healthy and happy. I don't know you, but I do care.
#5 You can live, and you can help other people who are feeling the same way. Helping people is very rewarding
#6 As hard as it is, thinking about people who are sick, especially children, people who are dying, can help you remember how precious life is.
#7 Things will get so much better and you will wonder how you only came up with 2 reasons, because suddenly you will have pages full
If you need to talk email me
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well i been there too and my only reason was my niece..
calm down and relize your young! your beautiful and it doesnt matter what anyone says and thinks about you...they dont know you and ..in ten years it will all be better!!
just trust me please...i really have been there!! your not alone and if you need to talk im willing to listen ok... just emauil me ok??
please know that no body is worth it and you can be a mom..a nd anything you want....
and if thsat fails you take those two reasons and make them into more ..like..your mom...she will be so hurt..it will effect her and it will hurt her too...just think more into ok...there are more than 2
Don't worry my reasons for not killing my dad are:
1. Its against the law.
2. I'm too old for age of discretion.
Just so long as you don't carry it out.
I was contemplating it for awhile too..for the exact same reasons. I learned that my bf was using me...and we had been together for awhile..I thought things were great..but he was lying to me constantly.. stated reasons that I was not good enough for him ..looks..personality...and I was devastated. I had lost close touch with most of my friends since I left high school, I could not afford a car, so I had to do online classes..which left me even more alone. My mom was the biggest reason that I didn't do it..because she already lost my brother in a car crash...and I didn't want to see her in that much pain again. I care for her so much. I also don't speak with a lot of my family anymore since my parents got divorced. I see my dad maybe once or twice a month, if that. I also am worried about my reputation. I don't want to be remembered as the weak, sad, selfish little girl that killed herself. Anything from a loving mother, wife and friend to the president of a big company or an athlete. You don't need a large circle of friends to feel complete. My mom is my best friend, and what little friends I had not kept in touch with...I started talking to again..about how things went wrong and we started over fresh. But things take time, and much healing. But please, don't give up.
I'm sure you can think of more. you need to go get help find someone you can spill your guts to without sparing any detail whether it a friend or anyone else you can trust even better go see a trained professional they can seriously help and they can't tell anyone at all unless its for your safety and even then they only give need to know information. if your not ready to talk to someone go get yourself a book, pen and hide in a dark room and write everything your feeling down then you can keep the book to yourself or find someone you can trust and get them to read it which is easier then saying it.
Hun.you're lucky...you have your MOM who evidently loves you..lean on her..let her help you..let her LOVE you!! You are blessed by that..honest!! The love of a Mother is the most incredibly strongest thing I've known...MY mom sold me..and my sis...but WE are BOTH loving mothers although we have nothing to do with one another since I don't go to her church..we were not raised together and she is older (I was adopted at birth, she wasn't until she was 6 and terribly neglected by our bi