I really miss my mom?!
Question: she is away for a week on business trip and my grandma takes care of us even though nobody asked her to, we can take care of ourselfs, anyway im 16 and im scared when i go to university i will my miss my mom too and i will be going to study in a diff country
the house feels so empty and i have been feeling sad all week, isnt it abnormal to be this old and miss your mom?
Answers: she is away for a week on business trip and my grandma takes care of us even though nobody asked her to, we can take care of ourselfs, anyway im 16 and im scared when i go to university i will my miss my mom too and i will be going to study in a diff country
the house feels so empty and i have been feeling sad all week, isnt it abnormal to be this old and miss your mom?
oh sweetie i am so sorry you are feeling sad! of course it is ok to miss your mom! at any age it is ok! you will miss her when you go to school, but take pictures of her with you, write her letters and emails, and call her often. it is just a fact of life that as you start your life away from your parents, you miss them. i think that is a wonderful thing, and it shows how much you love her.
no, you will always miss your mum. When you are old and she has gone you will still miss your mum. When you make decisions you will wonder what your mum will think, or wish she was there to ask for advice. It's natural. However, tell your mum your fears, she will help you through them.
no it ok
yea u probably should grow up get over it. shes com'n back
Of course it's okay. I'm....well, let's just say quite a bit older than you!...and I'm married but when my mom had to go out of the province suddenly for several weeks, I missed her like crazy! There is no age when you suddenly stop missing people you love. I know university is only two short years away (or less) but in that time you will grow and mature even more than you are now (and you sound like a mature young lady to me already!) and you will be able to handle missing her even better than now. However, if you do miss her too much, there is no shame in moving to a university closer to home. It's going to be okay. Tell your mom how much you miss her and you will make her day!! (hug)
its really normal to miss someone when he or she is away, i'm 26 & miss my mom when she's away so nothing to worry about, keep yourself busy at home cleaning or doing some of the repair works, call her wen ever you feel lonely, because no one can a replace the love of a mother. :-)
Don't dwell on it so much. Occupy yourself.
And don't start freakin' out about university. That is a while off, and you can cross that bridge when you come to it. You might have a totally different attitude about it by then.
This is cute...sweetie it's totally okay to miss her whenever. I'm fighting with my mom right now...been a week....and I miss her even though I see her everyday, we just don't talk because we're fighting
When you get the chance, please please please get some pictures taken of you and your mom together. Cause one day you will loss the best friend in your mom that you had, and she will be gone and you can never get that time back. My mom passed unexpectedly 5 years ago and if I didnt have my kids or husband to occupy my time, I dont know what i would do. When you go away to school, you will see how much she means to you and you will appreciate the time you have together. GOOD LUCK
I was hoping to see your profile but you don't have one. You said you will be going away to study in a different country. So I am going to believe you are not in the USA, right?
Anyway your feelings at this time are all part of growing up. You'll learn to overcome the sadness if you apply yourself to doing things around the house that your Mom would normally do, e.g., cleaning, washing dishes, doing laundry and so forth. It will not only get your mind off the emptiness but also get you to appreciate many of the things your Mom does for you and you take them for granted.
Now go hug Grandma and tell her "I Love You". Those 3 little words mean so much to grown ups when coming from their children or grand children. Don't forget to tell Mom the same thing when she returns. Bake a cake for Mama with the words I LOVE YOU frosted on it and one beautiful pink candle to light it on top. Watch the tears roll from her eyes. They will be tears of thankfulness and joy. That's a feeling only a parent can feel. Someday you will also feel that.
i remember going on holiday when i was young. just me and my cousin. i missed my mum at 1st and then when she came to pick me up i was a bit dissapointed coz i was back to home life again lol when you have time off uni and are able to fly back it'll make seeing your mum that little bit more special. phone her everyday, keep photos..plus maybe you can chat on webcam?