How do i deal with the death of a pet?!
Question: Well she is not dead yet thankfully
However soon she might need to be put down as she is very old , and displays many bad traits possibly fatal , or things that make her suffer . Either way i will try my best to keep her healthy and well but if things are go the worse, i really have no idea how i will deal with this.
Already i have little to no friends that would care about a pet dying , more guy friends who think everyone should be tough all the time,
It's going to be very hard on me and would like some tips to help out if possible, I already took some pictures of her to remeber her by, and will do about 50 more before she goes off to the vet for her check up within this week,
Losing her is like losing a family member , please no insults i will just flag them and remove any hatefull comments so dont waste your time being a jerk.
I read excercise is good for depression , its really cold outside as its winter so other ideas would be more helpfull.
thanks for reading this.
Answers: Well she is not dead yet thankfully
However soon she might need to be put down as she is very old , and displays many bad traits possibly fatal , or things that make her suffer . Either way i will try my best to keep her healthy and well but if things are go the worse, i really have no idea how i will deal with this.
Already i have little to no friends that would care about a pet dying , more guy friends who think everyone should be tough all the time,
It's going to be very hard on me and would like some tips to help out if possible, I already took some pictures of her to remeber her by, and will do about 50 more before she goes off to the vet for her check up within this week,
Losing her is like losing a family member , please no insults i will just flag them and remove any hatefull comments so dont waste your time being a jerk.
I read excercise is good for depression , its really cold outside as its winter so other ideas would be more helpfull.
thanks for reading this.
Sounds to me like you are doing a good job of preparing for the eventual loss of your pet. As pet lovers, it is something that is never far from our minds and hearts ... yes, the day will come when we have to make that decision, and yes, it will really, REALLY hurt. Sorry, there's no way to sugarcoat that, and I don't have any magic words to make it less painful.
But, ask yourself ... Did you give her a good life? Was she happy and well cared-for? Did you show her the love you felt for her? Of course you did, and that's all that any pet needs or even wants. You can face her final days knowing you did right by her, and you can be sure that she has no regrets. If it helps to know this, animals do not fear death. They may suffer a bit from the physical problems that come from old age or illness, but they are not afraid.
Here's a thought for you to consider, although it may seem like a betrayal of your current pet ... as soon as you feel able to do so, please get another pet. It is honestly the best way to get your spirits back up. No, of course you won't be replacing your pet, or forget the one you have now, you never will. But a new pet will engage your mind and heart and help to soften the loss.
If you have to make the decision about having your beloved pet put to sleep, it is up to you whether or not to stay with her at the end. The vet will respect your wishes, whatever you choose. Most people find it very hard to be in the room at that time but are later glad to know they were there to help the animal pass painlessly and quietly into sleep. And, yes, everyone gets emotional, so no need to be embarrassed about it.
If your friends don't understand, there are support groups that can help you. Your vet can also be a valuable resource ... some vets offer referrals to such groups. Doesn't hurt to ask, even if only for information on how to get through it.
It is the hardest thing in the world to do, making that final decision, but think of how much she has given you over her lifetime. Please trust yourself to do the right thing for her when her time comes. The ultimate gift is letting go. My best to you.
Although losing a pet is very sad, it is just something you need to face. No animal should have to suffer. Try getting another pet, this way you might not think about it as much.
That really sucks. I've been through what you have, I had a very nice cat a while back he was 11 yrs old and I had to put him down...he had a very rapid cancer. I was so upset for days..but what really helped me was I went and adopted a kitten at the animal shelter to help me get over my loss. I know it sounds kinda weird to some people who aren't as close to animals as I am but I am glad I saved a life at the shelter that day :) If you ever wanna talk or anything feel free to contact me.
I know that it can be tough having a pet pass away. Don't dwell on it. Consider getting a new pet. Don't be afraid to form an emotional attachment with another pet. My grandpa was afraid to get a pet after his dog passed away, but he found some kittens under his shed and he is a lot happier after taking them in and caring for them .
It's really sad losing a pet. They are (like) part of the family. I know its sad, but just know that your pet will be going to a better place with no pain, no suffering. Think of the good times you had together. And remember, pets age faster than humans... so just know it's for the best.
I know it's hard. Maybe you can get a new pet. And I know it won't be the same, but it might make letting go a little bit easier. Sorry about your loss....
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Unfortunately part of having a wonderful pet in your life...is that someday they will pass away. To me, pets are another extension of my family and to lose them can be devastating. I've found the best ways to deal with losing a pet is to try and remember them when they were at their happiest and healthiest...try seeing funny movies....or doing anything you enjoy that might take your mind off the situation...and give it time. It also helps to have the vets opinion, so you can reassured that putting them to sleep is the right decision. Wish you the best, it just takes time.
I have pets past and current. My current dogs aren't pets, they are members of our family. I treat a loss like that as I would one of a human nature. No matter what you will always remember, and pictures are great. Your greatest memories will be in your heart. I do not believe there is any easier way to deal with that kind of loss. But reverence and honor to a special family member are what I hold dear. My dogs are my babies. When they are ready to go it will not be easy. But they will forever hold an irreplaceable place in my heart. Some people say it's not what you take with you when you go, but what you leave behind. Try to remember all the good times and memories your little family member has given you all this time. They just need to be loved like we do. Unfortunately their life span is not like ours. I just know that I can never replace my babies, but I can always tell stories and look back on all of our good times and know that I gave them the best I could and that they returned that blessing. They truly are a best friend to be remembered always. I wish I had a cure all answer, but I just felt I needed to tell you that. I hope I helped just a little.