I'm embarrassed to allow people to look at my face.?!
Question: I don't know how my self-esteem dropped so low.
I have to go out today and I'm scared to let people see my face.
I know what they are thinking and I just freak out internally and want to hide. I dress well, but I still feel tortured to let men look at my face, especially guys I might like.
I don't know why but is this a disorder?
Answers: I don't know how my self-esteem dropped so low.
I have to go out today and I'm scared to let people see my face.
I know what they are thinking and I just freak out internally and want to hide. I dress well, but I still feel tortured to let men look at my face, especially guys I might like.
I don't know why but is this a disorder?
Hunny, you need to STOP. Men do not make you happy, its ideas like that that you need to get out of your head! You do not, i reapeat DO NOT need a man to make you happy. Your beautiful...when i look at you i see a warm, caring person, with pretty eyes...but what good am i doing you? YOU have to tell yourself that your beautiful, otherwise you'll never be. And what good is "pretty" anyways? What is pretty, anyways!!? I used to have major self-essteam problems growing up, and this guy i was going out with told me that i was beautiful, but what good was that if all i ever did was worry about my looks? I may have not realized it then, but he was right. I can be "beautiful" and walk infront of the mirror and hate myself. Sound familar? YOU, darling, are gorgeous. What you need to work on now is your inner beauty. Let it shine! Write in a journal, talk to your friends family, take time for yourself, because you beautiful and you deserve it! Don't let little things hold you back, and some times you'll feel like crap but thats okay. Its okay. Now, i want you to go look in the mirror and tell yourself your ******* gorgeous, because if you don't know it....what good do i do? And you might be wondering why i care so much, and i care because i went through the same thing as you, and i wasted half my life thinking those things. I held back, and I am NOT going to hold back anymore! I'm sick of seeing women beat up themselves, I'm sick of hearing "am i pretty" or "am i fat", just the other day a 16 year old asked if she needed lipo...that is disgusting! I'm sick of it, an you should be too. PLEEEAAASSEEE get on with your life, you only have one so don't waste it!!!!
stay strong.=)
i'm sorry! thats not a good way to feel. it must be hard. i will pray for you. God bless.
It might be a good idea to seek out a therapist, before it gets worse. People have a false self image of themselves sometimes.
You might have Body Dysmorphic Disorder.
think about it this way, how many times do you really judge others like that? you don't cause most of the time you're thinking about the way you look. Well it's that way for most people! they're thinking about you must think about them :D
Also you gotta love yourself. When people see that you love yourself than they'll love you too. Point out your good qualities in the mirror, smile every time you look at one
Aw, you are adorable, with that lovely smooth hair and mysterious eyes!
But that doesn't mean you see yourself like I see you.
As another suggested, Body Dysmorphic Disorder haa exactly t these symptoms you describe.
Google or Yahoo it and you will see and learn.