Cutting advice should i call my friend?!
Question: ive been cutting for 4 or 5 years n i just told my one friend n he said he is gonna help me hes older them me n goes to college n stuff and he said i can call him or IM him when i feel like cuttin and i feel like cutting rite now i just not sure if i suld tell him? i dnt want him to think i just want attion or anything cuz i dont ive kept it a secret for 5 years now... its just i cut cuz my mom n i fighted a lot to day and ive been relly depresed i cut when im sad depresed fight etc.. im getting help tommrow but shuld i tell him i feel like cutting myslef rite now?
Answers: ive been cutting for 4 or 5 years n i just told my one friend n he said he is gonna help me hes older them me n goes to college n stuff and he said i can call him or IM him when i feel like cuttin and i feel like cutting rite now i just not sure if i suld tell him? i dnt want him to think i just want attion or anything cuz i dont ive kept it a secret for 5 years now... its just i cut cuz my mom n i fighted a lot to day and ive been relly depresed i cut when im sad depresed fight etc.. im getting help tommrow but shuld i tell him i feel like cutting myslef rite now?
Yes, you ahould call him.
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Well, he said to give him a holla whne you fell like cutting so If I were you I would..hopefully he can help you stop harming yourself.
wow hon im sorry!!!!! you need to find another way to take your stress out. try writing or maybe drawing something else that will not hurt you or anyone around you. thats great your friend said you can call him your going to need support. just try to be strong and i know thats hard but you have to try, have you talked to your mom and told her whats going on? you might think she will freak out but you have to get as much help as possible. i hope things get better!!!!
I've been self-injuring for over five years, and finally have stopped with the support of family and close friends. You should definitely contact someone when you feel like hurting yourself, or do other healthy things to distract yourself. It's really scary opening up to others and letting them know your "secret" (I kept mine for years), but it's important that you find yourself a support network that will understand and accept you, while at the same time encourage you to stop self-injuring. A good website to check out is recoveryourlife.com; it's an entire site dedicated to self-injury, support, and ways to seek help and stop. Go contact your friend and talk to him. I hope you feel better!
yes call him ,and than get someone to take you to the er,, and get the help you really need, go call him andstop cutting,,,,
i think you should do what you feel is right. only few of my friends knows about my SI & they are very supportive , tho they might not completely understand, they dont think of me any differently. thats what friends are for right? you need to focus on something good, something you enjoy. try distracting yourself & do something you like! keep your hand busy, get red markers & draw on your skin or on paper...scribble, play with silly puddy. anything to distract. i have a "self care list" where when i need some extra help, i check my list to see what i could do to distract & find ways to fight the urge. i make videos about SI, maybe you could write about it. hang in there hon. im around if you need to talk. *safe hugs*
Most schools and colleges have great counselors, you need someone to talk to. You need some mental help to get you through this, because of depression. Believe me depression can lead to very bad and dangerous things in your life you would never expect. Please seek help, if this guy can be trusted and not into drugs fine, you need more than that.===
call your friend asap. He is there for you, you need to know that. Cutting is doing yourself no good. Don't do it. Call your friend.
he said to call him, believe him
CALL or IM
yes you should.. TALK TO SOMEONE it is the only way to help.. If he is the only one that you feel confort talking to you may want him to go get help with you.. it will make it easier to have someone who is on yourside there.