What would you think?!
Question: ok well im shy and i dont talk a lot at school like if in in class im really quiet, but around my friends i talk and laugh and stuff, act normally. but ive heard some ppl say that im too quiet, and it kinda bothers me. do u think thts weird?? b/ if youre shy youre shy its hard 2 control. what do u guys think?
Answers: ok well im shy and i dont talk a lot at school like if in in class im really quiet, but around my friends i talk and laugh and stuff, act normally. but ive heard some ppl say that im too quiet, and it kinda bothers me. do u think thts weird?? b/ if youre shy youre shy its hard 2 control. what do u guys think?
Personally, I don't think that being quiet is a bad thing at all. If you don't feel like being loud and talking to a ton of people, then you shouldn't let others make you feel weird and try to pressure you into it.
Shyness isn't strange, as some people seem to think. And it's certainly not a disorder. I'm pretty shy myself and I've come to accept that as being a part of my personality. Don't try to change yourself for anyone and be comfortable with who you are!
Being shy is a completely normal condition for a very large number of people.
You were not put on earth to live up to others' expectations.
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Lots of people are shy, it's a common social disorder. If YOU (not other people) consider it a serious problem, there are plenty of self-help books out there to get you out and communicating with other human beings. The most successful people in life were social creatures, and it's important that you talk to other people - you'll end up learning a lot and having fun, even though there will be always be a few negative side-effects (unfortunately, not everyone wants to be your friend). Just try to think of things in the long term: twenty years from now you might be worried that you didn't have as much fun as a kid as you could have, because you kept to yourself. If you're plenty talkative and whatnot, good and bad things will happen, but they'll just end up being memories to tell your own children about.
Dont' worry about it. You are reserved around non-friends. That's OK. You're not scared or anything. It isn't wierd. You're not anti-social. Tell those people that you are just reserved and it takes time to warm up to other people that aren't your friends.
You are just fine you are supposed to be quiet in class.
Don't listen to people they will only try to confuse you sound like you are doing great.
take care and good luck!
i'm the same way at school, I never talk to anyone, half the time I let my friends do al the talking.