How do you get over a death?!
Question: my gran died in aug
my uncle died new years eve
Answers: my gran died in aug
my uncle died new years eve
my grandma died 3 days before my birthday. its hard but crying helps. you will never get over it but it gets better. talk about the best things about that person. good luck.
The common link is you, oh angel of death. Just kidding. Time takes care of grief.
awwwwwww... there is really no way to get over it but you can do something to get it off ur mind
I'm sorry for your loss, when my father,sister and grandma died with in six months of each other I didn't think I could go on, but I remembered the good times with all of them and even though I would cry almost all the time it help me come to terms with their passing after a while it does get better, just don't be afraid to grieve that is the healing process
write how u feel,
cry
think of the good times u had with em
take it one day at a time u will get over it just not right away things like that takes time.
U dont! Its the kind of thing that u have to learn to deal with, day by day. Some people say every day gets easier, they fail to mention that it takes many many days before this happens. It always helps to talk about the person, look at photos...just remember them...dont remember how they were when they were sick etc., remember all the good things and fun times u had with them. Theres really not a way to get over it, but there are ways to accept it and live with it.
You talk about them, think about them, remember what your life was like with them, what made them special. This is part of the grieving process and as you do this you gradually feel a little better. This can take months. It is okay to cry, if you want to cry. If you don't have enough support, see if there is a grief support group in your area. All the ones I have known about were free and very helpful.
My brother died last year and I am not "over it"- I miss him everyday-
But you have to think of your relationship with them and what they would want for you- Missing their physical presence doesn't mean they are not with you still- Moping around does no good.
Honoring them and keeping their legacy alive is using the wisdom they shared with you, the strength they gave you and applying it everyday is what makes you feel close to them even though they are gone.
You'll have your outbursts and sad moments and that's normal but just think of how you would feel if you passed on and were watching your loved ones go through it...What would you want them to do?
I'm so sorry for your losses.
I recently lost my son (to cancer) and I was absolutely
inconsolable. I cried a lot and finally realized that he's in a better place. I will always love and miss him, but I know he's in a better place.
Time and faith help ease the pain. So sorry for your losses.
Just try to keep the faith and stay strong. They're in a better
place.
oh my god honey death is such a part of life hopefully you have wonderful memory's of your gran and your uncle death is very sad so you get to take as much time as you need that's how you get over it you remember her you remember the good times and cry when it hurts it is a process and you must go thru the stages and one day you will tell someone a story about one of them and you wont cry you will feel grateful that you ever had them in your life
It's not easy, but you will get though.
My mother, and my uncle passed away on the same night one hour apart!
This was the worst pain ever it has being eight years, and to be honest with you it still makes me sad when ever I think about it.
However, I pray and go to the cemetery and talk to my mom fix her placard, decorate it according to season and when i come home I feel much better.
You can never get over a death it is impossible my brother died and he was 16 he died at least 7 months ago and lets say we a still grieving u can never get over a death of someone u are