Where does your strength come from?!


Question: is there any way to become stronger?


Answers: is there any way to become stronger?

Underestimated - you don't need to become 'stronger.' You just need to realize that you are not powerless in your life, but rather YOU are the power in your life.

You worry about what other people think about you because when they say something negative about you it HURTS you. It HURTS you because what they say reflects something that you BELIEVE about yourself (whether its true or not). What they say hits a sore spot (an unhealed pain) within you.

According to Debbie Ford in her book, "The Dark Side of the Light Chasers", the bottom line is EVERYONE has places inside of them where they feel they are flawed and defective (not smart enough, not good enough, wrong, stupid, don't do it right, don't do enough). True strength comes from going within and healing those parts. You have to come face to face with the pain to heal it. This is done by learning to love yourself (Louise Hay "You Can Heal Your Life.")

Please know, you are not powerless in your life. According to Rhonda Byrne in her book, "The Secret," you are the center of your universe and you ATTRACT to you every event, situation, circumstance and person in your life through your thoughts, feelings and beliefs. Change your thoughts and you can change your life. It's up to you and you alone.

exercise, strength comes from the muscles and bones by using levers and acting on each other.

You first off have to believe in yourself. I find a lot of strength through prayer.

There are people if life that you love and/or respect and you should care what these people think of you. There are others who you don't love or respect or particularly care about so why should you care what they think about you? It isn't logical to care. They are basically strangers to your life.

Psalm 18:32
It is God who arms me with strength and makes my way perfect.

I think, personally, this comes with maturity and age. Not that younger people aren't emotionally strong but as you age you just don't give a **** like you used to. The people who like you far outweigh the ones that don't. And if someone criticizes you take it with a grain of salt and learn from it. If they're mean about it just "bite me" and go on about your business.
I mean you can't please everyone all the time. Find your voice and use it. As far as people close to you hurting you like through divorce and so on...lean on those who love you until you can build your strength again.

well i am very spiritual and i dont know if you believe in the bible or not but i look to God with prayer for my inner strength. i just recently moved to california and i am pretty much all alone and i have to be my own best friend too. also i had many issues with "so-called friends" in college and high school and i feel like God prepared me to get through it.

"fear not, for I am with you;
be not dismayed, for I am your God;
I will strengthen you, I will help you,
I will uphold you with my righteous right hand."




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