I feel like such a B**** and I don't know what to do..help...?!


Question: im 16. there's this guy at my school who i would always notice staring at me. like last year at lunch i would be walking with my friend and he would be standing in a circle w/ his group of friends but his eyes would be on ME. and i was like 30 feet away. but i ignore his glance. the most recent time was about 1 month ago. he was sitting a few seats behind me in my class and i was turned around talking to this girl behind me and he turned his body so he could look at me. i ignored him again. but here's the thing i'm like him SO MUCH..but i can't bring myself to look at him, its too emotional and it freaks me out. it might be awkward. today i was walking out of my class and he was outside the door kinda and i just totally didn't even look where he was. he probably thinks im a major B**** now...but i don't know how to talk to him? he sits on the other side of the room- the first day of class he sat behind me but i moved to be nearer my friends. but also b/c it made me feel nervous b/c


Answers: im 16. there's this guy at my school who i would always notice staring at me. like last year at lunch i would be walking with my friend and he would be standing in a circle w/ his group of friends but his eyes would be on ME. and i was like 30 feet away. but i ignore his glance. the most recent time was about 1 month ago. he was sitting a few seats behind me in my class and i was turned around talking to this girl behind me and he turned his body so he could look at me. i ignored him again. but here's the thing i'm like him SO MUCH..but i can't bring myself to look at him, its too emotional and it freaks me out. it might be awkward. today i was walking out of my class and he was outside the door kinda and i just totally didn't even look where he was. he probably thinks im a major B**** now...but i don't know how to talk to him? he sits on the other side of the room- the first day of class he sat behind me but i moved to be nearer my friends. but also b/c it made me feel nervous b/c

Oh, man, I feel for you. My own daughter has gone through this recently and here's what I told her. Smile and say hi. Right now this is probably the hardest thing in the world for you to do, but you have to. Nothing more than that, though, just smile and say hi and see what happens next.

I do the same thing.. your just a normal teen.. it'll get better

no longer young tip from a old guy . close to him drop books on floor . bump into him , trip over foot . if he was here would advise the same thing you are not being the b word by any means . it is called chemestry . he does want to make the first conversation but does not know how . if you hang back after class he may hang back simple hi from him may be all it takes . if you see him approaching you and your friends , break away , positive sign . he cannot talk to you if you are surronded by friends and vice versa . somewhere this antique mind has a thought that just has to be updated to this century . good luck . shyness by both of you , makes for good friends . best of luck this sounds positive . my time 1950s





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