I tryed to kill myself over a girlfriend.?!


Question: Told her i couldn't live without her in my life, and I would reather be died!!! seem no one believed me at the moment! Spent 3 weeks in ICU, and came way to close to death. I feel worst now more then ever. Depressed yes!! Bitter No! Angles told me to return back my job wasn't done on earth!?! What Job? What relationship???


Answers: Told her i couldn't live without her in my life, and I would reather be died!!! seem no one believed me at the moment! Spent 3 weeks in ICU, and came way to close to death. I feel worst now more then ever. Depressed yes!! Bitter No! Angles told me to return back my job wasn't done on earth!?! What Job? What relationship???

I assume the angels were after a NDE? If so...

The angels work in mysterious ways... think about it, if they told you exactly what to do, you wouldn't need to think about what they said, and what they want you to believe... And what they want you to do. This way the message stays longer, because you have to find out what they mean.

They probably don't mean job as in a career. They probably meant, you have something to do. Everyone is sent to Earth with a job God has in mind for them. You haven't done your job, yet, so you're not supposed to die. Let God do the killing.

If you're this depressed, have a psychiatrist work with you, see what your diagnosis is, and possibly get you on some medications (which may cause dependency, and other side effects, I warn you).

Find a new job to do. Make your life useful, if that's what angels told you. Hopefully, you'll be alright, needless to say the medications will be lifted, and you'll go on like it never happened, other than [hopefully] you will have learned a lesson from angels speaking to you... Do your job.

I don't know if they said more to you that you haven't mentioned, because from what you said there was nothing about a relationship. If the angel(s) said maintain a relationship, then probably it was meant with friends & family, because you're in a time of need, and the angels want what's best for you. If they said help your relationship or make new ones, obviously you need to find someone who loves you more than the girl who [i assume] dumped you/ moved/ died.

Good luck, and remember, let God do the killing. [Does that sound cruel?]

find another

you should get some help! and plus she isnt worth you killing yourself.

there are many other females out there in the world just waiting to date someone

A man can be happy with almost any woman, so never think that there's only one for you.

There are more laughs and fun times around the next bend, but you have to get around the bend to have them.

You need to take a step back from the situation. There will be other relationships. Saying your job isn't done basically means that it is not your time. I would not advise trying suicide as a way out. If you are still depressed I'd speak with a doctor and get yourself on some meds. This too will pass in time....

Obviously, there are some underlying issues here that merely manifested themselves over your girlfriend. You need to take some time for yourself and find support within your family and friends if possible during this tough time, in addition to finding yourself a therapist, psychiatrist, and/or program that you can enter to address your depression and suicidal thoughts.

I wish you all the best!

I have felt that way more than once. But, there is always some one out there and it always has been better than any of them.
Just leave it in GOD's hands.

Oh my! I feel for you, I really do. Sometimes when we lose a loved one it is as if our very breath is taken from our being. The lost of your girlfriend while traumatic to the point of extreme in your life does not mean life is over for you. There are other girls out there. Perhaps she was not the right one for you. I lost a husband at 34 years of age, left with two small children to bring up alone. Yes life is not fair and it hurts sometimes but you will feel life is worth living again. Perhaps what the angels were telling you you can be of help to someone else in life that you have not even met yet, who knows/ The key is not to give up and say to yourself what do I now have to live for? You are unique. There is only one you, with all your gifts and talents and all that you have to offer the world. Don't get depressed but move on in life. Go out, have some fun even if you do not feel happy inside. Do it anyway. The hurt heals eventually and all is right in your world again. Try being with friends and doing other stuff, Date a bit even.... You have to carry on. The world needs you.......... who know whats in your future. Remember there are 6 billion people in the world right now. Somewhere there is one made just for you and you alone. Take care and hang in there huh?





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