For people who have a control freak for a partner?!


Question: my girl is a control freak. she is so out of this world mental it just drives me insane. i'm wondering how many people on here have a absolute control freak for a wife,gf,husband,or bf......how the hell are you suppossed to deal with it to make it function? i wanna know from people who know what i'm talking about and have a complete mental case for a partner


Answers: my girl is a control freak. she is so out of this world mental it just drives me insane. i'm wondering how many people on here have a absolute control freak for a wife,gf,husband,or bf......how the hell are you suppossed to deal with it to make it function? i wanna know from people who know what i'm talking about and have a complete mental case for a partner

I tried to be with my husband and stand by his side for 10 years while he suffered from compulsive disorder, were it would take him 2 hours to get to bed because of having to check the door nobs, and the oven and checking to see if the kids was breathing, the phone was off ect... he was also bipolar, this lead to him being very controlling, were he would walk so many feet behind me to make sure i was walking with my head down, and not looking around at other men. and in the 10 years i maybe went out to shoot pool with my brothers like 5 times, each time was why was i wearing my hair down, why wasnt my top button closed on my shirt,and also ment staying up for hours on end when i got home telling him every little detail that happend. the last three years of it , it lead to him being mental abusive, and physically abusive. I finally left and when i did i went back to school, and lost a bunch of weight, and felt 100% better about myself, and finally found someone that loves me for me.

It is very hard to be in a relationship with people who have mental problems, they need help, and meds. but still even then is not easy to be with. If you are not happy then you need to rethink were the relationship is going to be in 10 years. and i really with you the best of luck, and in someway i hope i helped you.

Slip out the back jack, an set yo self freeee!!!
She needs serious help that u can't give her. I don't mean it like I made it sound. I was jus yokin! But ya need ta do somethin, it's not gonna work, I've seen it too many times, I've beeeeeen thru it tooo many times. 1 thang I've learned, when somone is a control freak, they push EVERYONE OUT
of their lives eventually! They make UUU as sick as they are!! LOve ya, Sonshine!

if you want to be your own man then listen to this. if some one knew they couldent beat you in a fight to the death would they try? no because they no theyll lose. if your gf new she couldent tell you what to do would she try ? no so next time she trys to control you say no. and if she threatens to break up with you then do it because id be happier without her. and if she acts like that then it wasent ment to be.

why waste time with someone you think is a freak? if your unhappy, find someone else!





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