How to grow patience?!
Question: i dont want silly answers im serial i have no patience plz help me!!!! i dont how to get more
Answers: i dont want silly answers im serial i have no patience plz help me!!!! i dont how to get more
You have to make yourself slow - down .. and don't be anxious while you do things. You have to talk your way through it. Make a habit of doing this .. and it eventually should get better.
Patience can be a learned art .. especially when a person does not have any.
Just stop .. slow down ... make yourself do it.
You could try setting up challenges for yourself, where you have to wait a certain amount of time before doing something you like. Then try different ways of passing the time and controlling your emotions during the time you have to wait.
Maybe try to become more observant. You are probably missing all kinds of things by being impatient. Instead of spending your time getting worked up while waiting for something, try noticing what is going on around you. Maybe people are having funny conversations. Maybe there is a quarter on the ground. Maybe some cute girl is checking you out. But you don't know because you're to busy waiting for the next thing to start.
These are just theories. I don't know anyone who has tried them, but it seems like they might work.
Good luck!
Patience does not arrive unannounced, sitting on our "plate", ready to use.
Rather, patience is LEARNED THROUGH TRIALS AND PRACTICE.
Learning to wait is something babies and toddlers can't do.
Yet, as a child gets to Kindergarten, we expect them to learn to wait in line for the drinking fountain.
What happens to the hungry mouth of an impatient person when a pizza is just coming out of the oven? - He gets his mouth burned by the hot cheese - and it's too painful to eat more.!
What happens to the patient person who waits for the pizza to cool some? He enjoys his food and eats more.
Are you getting the picture? Patience is a learned behavior, and it comes through practice and understanding, it's an advanced version of learning to wait.......going through the trials of the high school locker room will teach a person to learn to wait to one side during a towel-snapping free-for-all because of 2 things. #1 because you don't want to feel the pain of being snapped by a wet towel. #2 because you know full well the coach is about to appear from his office to clear the deck of offenders...and you do not want to be one of them -- and so, you wait, even though inconvenienced, so as not to be caught in the middle of trouble.
So, learn your lessons, and learn them well on the road to self-control and patience.