I'm worried about my mum?!?!
Question: today her mum died (my nan)
Last year she lost her husband, and the year before she lost her dad...i'm really worried about her..what can i do? I am upset about losing my nan, but more worried about her.., and dont know what ican do!
Answers: today her mum died (my nan)
Last year she lost her husband, and the year before she lost her dad...i'm really worried about her..what can i do? I am upset about losing my nan, but more worried about her.., and dont know what ican do!
Hi
Sorry to hear about your loss, but it's nice to hear that you are concerned about your Mum.
You should both be able to help each other as you are both grieving.
This link to the Mind website will give you some easy to read and understand information.
Understanding Bereavement:
http://www.mind.org.uk/Information/Bookl...
it will be useful for you to read to understand the process that you both are going through and it will offer some practical tips on things to do to help your Mum.
Hope this helps.
Take care and good luck.
just be there for her....at least she has you...be the best daughter you can for her.
give her all the support you can tell her you need and love her and be there for her .!!!!
comfort her, make her feel / know that ur there for her and that shes loved
just be there for her ,she must be a strong ladie to get through what she has ,all the best to you both with the future
She will of course be going thru alot of emotions, I would try to find some way to make her smile, when my gran died, I wrote a poem of how I felt, try that, or make a memory book . SO you can allways have something to remember her by, and it helps.
be there for her when she needs you and support her by doing chores etc making her life alittle easier, just give abit of space to deal with this. be patient
i dont know what you can do to stop worrying and im so sorry for your loss............ just tell her you love her and give her a cuddle and hold her as long as you can
She is in a very dark place right now and anything you can do, like make her a cup of tea and listen to her woes, would be most helpful. That is really all you can do right now. As time passes, things will get easier, hang in there and all will turn out fine. Give it time!!
Firstly, it's okay hun, you will certainly feel afraid and you are being so good to your mum and your mum is so lucky to have someone who cares. you must go and see your mum try and stay with her spent as much time as possible with her talk about your beloved nan let her reminise and let her cry, cry with her look at old photographs.
1. go down to you local photoshop, gift shop and buy a beautiful photo frame put a picture of your dear nan in it and write a loving note next to it.
2. buy your mother a box of choclate her favourite flowers and help her out round the house try and do a smuch as you can for her.
3 run her a nice bath with bath salts and some candles and some lavender foam or something similr it will relax her and give her time on her own.
4. try not to leave her alone to long she needs you more than you think
5. phone her friends from her phone book invite them round a familar and friendly face will cheer her up.
6. buy her some bubbly and cook her a meal this will let her know how much you care
also hun, i am so sorry for your loss, i lost my nan, godfather and dad and i hurts, but you must stay strong, try and socialize as much s you can and keep taliign to your mum, let her know thats tyou love ehr and don't forget to now and then give her elicit comfort and a cuddle. gd luck xxx and best wishes to you and your mothers future xxx
Just be there for her, talk about them to her, cry togrther and hug each other often, as a mother of three i know i would really appreciate that. sorry for your loss xx
There are no rights and wrongs at such sad times like this. You are all in a state of grief and all of you need each others love in these darkest of times when a loved one has gone. All of you have to be there for the others who are left. Families have the strength to help each other. Just tell your beloved Mum that you love her very much. That will mean so much to her.
Am sending you a big cyberhug.
Alan L.
Be there for her and most important talk about them all and keep the memories alive. Look after her and give her all the support she needs. She is lucky to have you! God bless you. x x
Sounds like she has had a hard time of it lately, she must know how much you love and want to be there for her. Maybe suggest she see's a counsellor so she can talk any issue she may have thro... But dont forget to keep letting her know how much YOU care. Good luck
be as good as gold and keep an eye on her. let her deal with it in her way for a while. if she gets really bad call the doctor and ask him to visit.