I don't care anymore?!
Question: I don't know what's up. I don't care about school anymore. I'm failing and I don't care. I feel sad and there is no reason to be sad. What's up? I never eat anymore. When I do eat it's junk food. I hate school. The only time I'm laughing is when I'm with my frineds or family. I also hate going out in public. I'm scared to talk to other kids I don't know. I feel like I'm being judged. I have a very low self esteem. I also self harm and I'm trying to stop.
Answers: I don't know what's up. I don't care about school anymore. I'm failing and I don't care. I feel sad and there is no reason to be sad. What's up? I never eat anymore. When I do eat it's junk food. I hate school. The only time I'm laughing is when I'm with my frineds or family. I also hate going out in public. I'm scared to talk to other kids I don't know. I feel like I'm being judged. I have a very low self esteem. I also self harm and I'm trying to stop.
I think you are very depressed. Talk to a doctor. There is nothing to be embarrassed about.
neither do i so stop rambling
What are you doing to "self harm?" It sounds like you are going through depression, but I am not sure what is causing it. Has something happened in your life recently to cause you to feel this way?
its all up to you. if u have given up hope then there is nothing that can be done. always believe that you can do it and you need to take the first step in helping yourself.
people cannot help you first unless you help yourself.
start to believe that talking to someone can help you. talk to someone you are close to like ur mom or your dad or maybe your siblings.
nothing is impossible.
i hope u'll get well and be a happy girl again.
*safe hugs* its tough. i self injure & its tough to deal with things so i turn to hurting myself. i careless, feel bad & then i started to realize i need to stop looking at the bad, start learning the good stuff about me. even the littliest stuff, it isnt easy. therapist are good soruce to talk to when needed. it doesn't do bad, if you find the right one. hang in there.
just blame everyone else around you, keep doing the same things and end up on welfare or being a drain on our society. Everyone else does.
OR-- you can make some goals for yourself, find a passion, dig into your soul, volunteer to help someone else who is worse off than you and focus your energy on doing GOOD things for your life.
Your choice, everyone chooses at some point. It's your life, so you control what you do, what you eat, how you feel,who you interact with, if you have a victim mentality or if you are a fighter or winner in life. The definition of insanity is to continue doing the same thing, over and over, and expecting different results. so I say stop feeling sorry for your life and EXPECTING others to fix you. Take stock of what you enjoy, where you want to be and then take small steps towards them. If you write goals and a time line, you can see yourself progres when you look back. For my kids sake, I hope you choose to actually LIVE your life, instead of EXISTING. becuase they don't deserve to pay for everyone elses choices to drain society.
Some one may flagg this, but let's get real. Everyone has a choice, and so do you. so make some decisions in your life for the direction that you want to go and GO FOR IT!!
maybe the fact that its your mom taking you that makes you reluctant to go? I certainly wouldn't go either in that case.
Maybe you should start your school counselor, your parents won't have to know about it if you doesn't wants them too.
You need to talk to someone before you start hurting yourself
You sound very, very depressed...dangerously so. Please get a referral to a psychiatrist--a doctor that takes care of people's mental health problems. There is absolutely nothing to be ashamed of or embarrassed about. I am depressed right now and have bipolar disorder. If you are harming yourself, not eating, not feeling like going out and being with others, failing in school and hating school, and not caring anymore, those are serious signs and symptoms of depression.
You can get help for depression. If you see a psychiatrist, she or he can perhaps give you a prescription for medication that will help you feel better. Also he or she can refer you to a therapist for emotional support. You really need support right now.
Please, please get some help and don't harm yourself. If I knew that you had done that, I would feel very sad.
Take care and feel better.
You should talk to a doctor, and shouldn't be embarrassed, they've heard it all before and won't judge you. Trust me, in the future you'll be happy you got help for your problems at 17 instead of waiting and having them get much worse and harder to treat
Ehh I feel exactly the same way.
Talk to a friend
Im embarrassed too.
I hate doctors.
GOOD LUCK!
It does sound like you are depressed, if you're sad with no reason for it. You need to go to your doctor and dont be embarrassed as loads of people do this - it's so not something to be shy about. If you are eating crap all the time then this will make you feel even worse, you need a healthy balanced diet and this will automatically make you look and feel better in many ways. You really need to go nd see your doctor, get some counselling and perhaps i would help to join some sort of club (sport, whatever) where you meet other people as this will help you get out more, make friends and build your self esteem, good luck I hope you feel happier soon and start to care about yourself, you need to care about yourself to be happy again and that means looking after yourself.
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It is completely understandable to be embarrassed about situations like this, however, you shouldn't be. You should know that no matter how bad you feel--no matter how much you feel that you are the only person in the world to experience these emotions--you aren't the only one that undergoes these feelings.
When I was about your age--don't you hate hearing that when somebody older tells you things?--I was undergoing similar emotions. I was embarrassed about it too. It took me 2 years to finally tell my parents what I was feeling and to start seeing a doctor. In the meantime, I never went to classes, I failed just about every one of them, and I didn't care. I started cutting myself when I was really down, and now I have a few permanent, ugly, scars. I thought that when I went to the doctor I'd be laughed at, or that I'd be committed. I can't tell you how relieved I was to hear that, while not "normal," I wasn't the freak I perceived myself as being. Psychologists, psychiatrists, even your family doc, deal with people day in and day out who have problems similar to yours.
I think you really ought to start by seeing your family doctor first and he/she can make the assessment as to what the best next step would be.
In the meantime, just remember, you are not alone. You will be OK. You are a unique and worthwhile person, and you deserve happiness, so let somebody help you achieve that.
doctors can be nice people you can request a male/female if one is on your insurance plan your mom can check You feel so much better when it is all over and you can laugh and sing again isn't it nice to know that you are a ok person, you are a wonderful caring loving person- the only thing that may be wrong is that you may have a little depression ( i cannot diagnose you) and a pill may make you all new again.