How would you diagnose this woman?!
Question: -Educated, has a Phd
-Emotionally shallow
-Dresses with emphasis on her breasts
-Craves attention of men
-Falls in love quickly, fall out of love quickly
-27 and still lives with parents
-Fantasizes about marriage, but has never been in a long-term relationship
-Loves phone sex and flirting
-Religious
-Unusually close to her father, resents mother
-Materialistic
-Talks about sex at inappropriate situations
-Virgin
Just to be clear, she is not a girlfriend, ex-girlfriend, or potential anthing. She is someone I've known since I was a child and I still havent figured her out.
Answers: -Educated, has a Phd
-Emotionally shallow
-Dresses with emphasis on her breasts
-Craves attention of men
-Falls in love quickly, fall out of love quickly
-27 and still lives with parents
-Fantasizes about marriage, but has never been in a long-term relationship
-Loves phone sex and flirting
-Religious
-Unusually close to her father, resents mother
-Materialistic
-Talks about sex at inappropriate situations
-Virgin
Just to be clear, she is not a girlfriend, ex-girlfriend, or potential anthing. She is someone I've known since I was a child and I still havent figured her out.
Probably Histrionic Personality Disorder.
does anyone else beside you know her?
can see her or ever meet her ?
She sounds like she's an imperfect human
Souns like a vaccuous attention seeking moron who needs to be given a good seeing to then kicked to the curb, or a reality injection
Sounds like she needs to work on her self esteem. She is probably craving attention from men, so she is close to her father, and dresses provocatively to get that attention. Once she gets the attention, she doesn't know what to do with it. Sounds like a very immature person who needs to grow up and worry about others and not be such a narcissistic person.She really needs therapy, I am glad shes getting it..
oxymoron .
I think she has emotional issues. And maybe lack of confidence. Maybe her parent's marriage isnt so good and she is scared of being in a relationship bcoz she thinks it will turn out the same.
She seems to have a super high expectations from a guy.. which is why she has not had a long term relationship.
She definitely is interested in sex..maybe is holding out for the right guy but is still curious..or for religious reasons.
I am sure she thinks she is the catch of the century and is waiting for her prince charming to come on his white horse and sweep her off her feet!!
Question is... if she is not a potential anything..why are u interested in figuring her out?? ;-)
My guess is that she wasn't given or shown a lot of love and acceptance from her parent's when growing up. She was probably criticized frequently & made to feel that whatever she did just wasn't good enough. This would cause low self-esteem which would result in an emphasis on the physical. She may feel that looking attractive is the only thing she has going for herself. She may never overcome a sense that she is just never quite good enough at anything.
It's possible that her parent's relationship between themselves wasn't so hot, either. She wouldn't have learned what is involved in a good, long-term relationship. This, in conjunction with low self-esteem, would make her poor at maintaining a healthy relationship with someone.
Since she lives with her parents, she can't be too materialistic, can she? She probably spends most of her money on clothes. I can understand her living with her parents while attending school.
Who knows, maybe she's bi-polor? If she's all the things you say she is, it sounds like a little professional help is in order.
I think she has some issues she probably needs to deal with,maybe see a counsellor. Be a mate and stick with her,be there for her,but don't put up with any crap
what i wonder is how she's religious and enjoys phone sex...
it's mind boggling to me too...
it's weird how someone can be a flirt, who lives at home, and is a virgin...
she sounds like a walking contradiction.
no offence...