I'm 15 years old. I'm not sure if its right that i'm so Depressed al!
Question: Ever sense I was 10, my father has been blowing his top on me. I was abused for about a year, I told someone, he wouldn't talk to me for 2 months, and now whenever I make a mistake he yells at me uncontrollably and my mother does nothing.
Like 2 days ago, I dyed my hair one shade darker (i've dyed my hair before, and he never said anything about it) and he started cussing at me for hours and hours, then shaved my head completely bald of 2 feet of hair.
I turned on the computer one time and he forgot to sign out of messenger. I saw him talking to a girl, flirting with her telling her how much he loved her and his last sent message was "see you at work".
He never lets me go out with my friends, ever. If someone calls and asks for me, I get screamed at. Because i'm so depressed and not very talkative most people have concluded thats the reason as to why I dont have very many friends (I have about 4).
Answers: Ever sense I was 10, my father has been blowing his top on me. I was abused for about a year, I told someone, he wouldn't talk to me for 2 months, and now whenever I make a mistake he yells at me uncontrollably and my mother does nothing.
Like 2 days ago, I dyed my hair one shade darker (i've dyed my hair before, and he never said anything about it) and he started cussing at me for hours and hours, then shaved my head completely bald of 2 feet of hair.
I turned on the computer one time and he forgot to sign out of messenger. I saw him talking to a girl, flirting with her telling her how much he loved her and his last sent message was "see you at work".
He never lets me go out with my friends, ever. If someone calls and asks for me, I get screamed at. Because i'm so depressed and not very talkative most people have concluded thats the reason as to why I dont have very many friends (I have about 4).
Hun I am sorry to hear all of that. Its not right that seemingly both of your parents don't treat you like you should be. The types of things that they do to you will make you be depressed. It doesn't sound like the councilors are listening very much if they haven't done anything about it. Don't stop at telling the councilors, also talk to the teachers and principal and let them know how you feel and the way your parents make you feel. Someone will listen and will do something about it. What your father does is a form of abuse and there is no reason for his rage. If teachers or anybody don't want to help on doing something you can go to the police and let them know your scared of being at home because of all the rage in the house. Whatever you do don't hurt yourself. Your dad and maybe even your mother need to go in for counseling to try and get your fathers rage in control. I hope for the best for you and if you ever need to talk I have an open ear for you.
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LIFE GOES ON AND IT SOUNDS LIKE IN 3 MORE YEARS YOU'LL BE ABLE TO LEAVE HOME. ARE YOUR GRADES GOOD? DO WHAT YOU CAN TO GET THROUGH SCHOOL. JOIN THE SERVICE GET HELP TO GO TO A COMMUNITY COLLEGE. GET A JOB. DO SOMETHING BUT DON'T SET AROUND AND FEELING SORRY FOR YOUR SELF. THERE ARE SOME OF US WHO ARE LIVING IN A WORSE HELL AND WE KEEP GOING EVERYDAY. STAY AWAY FROM YOUR PARENTS AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE. TRY TO MAKE NEW FRIENDS. DON'T BE BASHFUL. EVERYONE HAS SOME THING THAT SOMEONE ELSE LIKES. I GET A BOOK AND READ. GO INTO MY OWN WORLD AND WAIT FOR THE DAY I TURN 18 AND CAN WALK OUT. ANYWHERE WILL BE BETTER.
I would consider talking to the school counselers and asking them about calling social services and tell them exactly this because what your dad does is not right at all
The reason your depressed is obvious your father abuses you and isolates your from everyone theres nothing wrong with how you feel
That absolutely is reasoning for depression, many people are depressed over a lot less. Your father still abuses you and you need to do something about it. I would recommend that you call child welfare google child welfare to find your local office. Just make sure your dad is not around. I would walk in to your counselors office and say that you are so depressed and no one will help you. Make them listen to you and show them how serious you are. I would write a journal and record everything that your parents do to you, even verbal abuse. You have to get your point across, you may consider the option of telling your mom that your dad is clearly cheating. If you do this make sure you have proof because she will probably just make excuses for him. If you have proof then maybe she will snap out of her oblivion and help you. Best of luck, remember you have to help yourself.