What to do with this person???!


Question: so there is this guy
and ive met him once
and i gave him my name and my number
and i actually didnt remember who he is
and he asked me out
and of course i was not paying attention like at all and said yeah ok thats nice
hes been calling my house 24/7
calling my cell 24/7
and leaving messages like i need to see you
and i finally answered the phone and i was like i cant do anything im grounded which he in fact knows and he was like well illl just change that
he even had his mom call
and hes also been tracking down all of my friends asking stuff like where i am and where i live
should i be worried this guy might do something bad??
because im really worried that hes too obssesed with me


Answers: so there is this guy
and ive met him once
and i gave him my name and my number
and i actually didnt remember who he is
and he asked me out
and of course i was not paying attention like at all and said yeah ok thats nice
hes been calling my house 24/7
calling my cell 24/7
and leaving messages like i need to see you
and i finally answered the phone and i was like i cant do anything im grounded which he in fact knows and he was like well illl just change that
he even had his mom call
and hes also been tracking down all of my friends asking stuff like where i am and where i live
should i be worried this guy might do something bad??
because im really worried that hes too obssesed with me

He's a stalker and yeah he would probably do something bad to you (try to rape you) if he got the chance. Make sure to tell your friends not to give him ANY information. you can block his number on your cell phone right on your phone. I think you will have to call the phone company to block him from your home phone. This will piss him off but as long as you are with someone at all times when in public and you either lock your house doors or have someone home with you(preferably male), both would be better. If you have not already make sure you tell your parents. If after you have taken all of these precautions, he still does not get the hint and comes to find you, CALL THE POLICE and get a restraining order. Good luck and don't think that he will just leave you alone - take action!

hes prolly stalking you. tell your mom an dad

It does not sound good. Period. The more you talk to him the more he may be misperceiving that you might like him or maybe you don't like him but you like the attention. Either way, it's not good. Put an end to it before it gets more out of control.

Well well guess who has a stalker??? If this behaviour persists you need to tell your parents, if that doesnt work then tell the police...
One of our grandkids had a similar problem but I put a stop to it for her, he will not be back...
You probably dont need this and you have recognised you made a lapse in judgement..
Good luck and I hope you get it stopped
steven

you really don't need a guy like that to me he seems like he is abscessed with you,and you need to tell your mom and dad .

If he had his mom call, you have a couple other options. One would be to call her and explain that her son is calling all.the.time and scaring you. The other would be to talk to your parents (a good idea either way) and see if they think it a good idea to talk to his parents.

Why I think his parents should know is because he has an obsession which is a problem that needs to be dealt with while he is young. As an adult, it could turn into a bigger issue.

Ugh! Why are some people such freaks?!?!?
why can't they just back off???
Bottom line... there is no way of knowing how far the guy will take it. I'll tell you like I tell every other girl I know (not trying to scare you) For every guy you meet, make sure at least one of your parents know about him (first and last name, vehicle they drive (license plate# if you know it), where they live, and always make sure they know where you are meeting someone. Give your parents his phone # too. Have a check in text message time or call time, whichever you are comfortable with when on a date or whatever. And always, as paranoid as it sounds, take it from my experience, for every place you go, learn to just glance around and spot 5 things in a room that you can use as a weapon. You never know when you'll need it. It may sound crazy, but if a guy gets a hold of you and won't let you go once you'll understand. so keep that from happening k? be safe.

Yep, it sounds like you're being stalked. Believe me, I know what it's like - I've had 2 in the last year and one still won't leave me alone.... I got rid of the first one by buying a new phone with a new no. so he couldn't text me...I basically just ignored him!! Carry around pepper spray with you just to be safe - it's like stalker repellent!! Tell your friends and family not to give him any of your personal details and make your parents aware of the situation if you feel it gets any worse..... Also, make it very clear to your stalker that you're not interested. That's what I should have done with mine but I didn't want to upset anyone so I said nothing.....
Good luck M'dear!! xx

tel him to get a life

i reccomend police, family, deadbolts, pepperspray, taser in that order





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